Breakups can be hard, but sometimes they are for the best! I was in a long distance relationship before and I really loved this guy but he decided to end the relationship because he wanted to do more with his friends and the fact that he had to come to visit me during his holidays made that impossible, so he broke things up to spend more time with his friends. When he told me the reason why he wanted to end things I felt so betrayed and furious. It was such a stupid reason!
But at the end I was pissed with myself because when we met I didn't want to be with him, the reason why i didn't want to be with him was that I never believed in long distance relationship but he convinced me that we would manage and that it would work. So I dived in this relationship without looking back.
Only now six months after the breakup I managed to get over him. Maybe it's easier to get over someone when you don't live in the same country. But the mane reason why I got over him was because he told me that we should remain friends, but it never got to that point since we stopped talking to each other, I tried to talk to him, to snapchat him just for us to remain friends but he didn't do the same so I stopped, If i have to ask for someones attention then I don't even want it.
The only thing that I concluded out of this is that yes I loved him but he wasn't the one for me. I'm thankful to had him in my life because now I know what I want in a man! And won't do the same mistakes.