I have a problem with woman settling down because they are desperate or the guy has because of all of this sums up to their own low self esteem. If it is not meant for you then give that shit back because God has your true love. If you as ladies or men know that you deserve better than then the Bullshit infront of you then why are you staying in despear. In order to receive what God has for you, you have to be ready for it .. you cant be in the midst of the bullshit that you created waiting for God to carry you out. He didnt put you there in the first place There are no excuses once you have learned that you deserve better than this. You have to make room for God in order to receive so therefore Clean House