If it makes you a better mom, do it!
No matter if it's having chocolate for breakfast, watching Netflix instead of doing the dishes, having tons of coffee throughout the day to stay energized, going out partying every now and then to feel young again, focusing on yourself and needing some me-time, going grocery shopping in your pyjamas, getting take-away the whole week instead of cooking or crying out loud after a rough day.
When you're happy, when you focus on your well-being and what you need, your baby will be happy. So forget about mom-shaming or what people might think, do you momma. <3