Sure, relationships come and go - this is a part of life - but there's nothing quite like being entangled with someone who leaves an everlasting imprint on not just your heart - but something much deeper: your soul.
Everyone wants to find their true soul mate, and many individuals chase after that dream endlessly. But the truth is that the universe has a plan for us all - including when it will introduce us to our one true love.
In this article, we will explore the law of affinity and how it can help you to find your soulmate.
Are you ready? Let's dive in.
The Law of Attraction
The Univeral Law of Attraction states that people are like magnets. A magnet attracts iron because that's what it's made up of - iron!
People attract other individuals who are "made up" of the same stuff, too - like desires, hopes, fears, feelings, and so on. For example, in a very basic way, when you smile at somebody, do people smile back at you? Yes, most often, they do. This is the Law of Attraction working at its finest. When you smile, people are drawn to your positive energy, it makes them feel good, and as a result, they smile back, which makes you feel good, too.
In its simplest form, the Law of Attraction is the belief that "like attracts like," and that by focusing on positive vibes and thoughts, we can bring about positive results.
So, with that in mind, if you've been trying to figure out how to find your soulmate, understanding and following a few simple things will help to empower you to attract the lifelong partner you seek. There is nothing you can't have, be, or do when you know how to activate the unlimited power that lies within you. So, how does one find their soulmate using the Law of Attraction?
We'll tell you.
Get clear about what you truly want in your life.
Each failed relationship in your past may have brought you heartache, but they have also shed some light on what you want in your future partner. The issue is, however, that many people focus on the negative when they should be focusing on the positive.
For example: by stating that you don't want a partner who "puts his or her career before the relationship," you are emitting energy and focusing on a partner who puts work before love - and that is the desire you are unconsciously sending out into the universe,.
The good news is that if you know what you don't want in a partner, you know what you do want in a partner. Your power to create lies in your ability to choose thoughts that are crystal-clear so you can tell the universe exactly what you want. For example, "I want a partner who puts me first and loves me unconditionally."
You can tell if your affirmation is negative or positive by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel bad, it's negative. If it makes you feel good, it's positive. It's that simple.
Fall in love with yourself.
"You can't truly love someone without loving yourself first." This is arguably very true. You can't expect someone to fall in love with you if you're not first in love with yourself. When we criticize or judge ourselves, we send out an energy that repels others. Self-criticism is negative energy, and it works great to repel other energy (whether that is good or bad energy) and potential partners.
Self-love, on the other hand, is attractive and attracts potential soul mates. So when in doubt, practice self-love.
Make a quick list of ten characteristics you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it every day. Whether that's on your fridge, bathroom mirror, or on the steering wheel of your car - make sure it's in a place that is visible. And it doesn't really matter what you have on your list, just as long as it easily generates those happy 'feel-good' feelings that you have towards yourself.
Dream about the love you desire.
If you're ready for love and finding that perfect person, one of the best things you can do is get cozy and lost in day-dreaming, picturing your perfect partner.
As you imagine this person, the universe will receive these images as indicators of what you want and what to create in your life.
In your imagination, the sky's the limit, and you can create and improve on your desired relationship until it meets your highest ideal. Once you have that perfect image locked in your mind, replay it over and over again, and one day, you'll find yourself actually living it.
The power of your imagination is an unstoppable force and can truly transform your love life. Trust us on this one.
Avoid jealousy at all costs.
It's natural to feel the little green-eyed monster sitting on our shoulder from time to time, especially when we see someone experiencing something we desire and don't have. But believe it or not, jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you. It is a negative emotion and will repel what you truly want in your life.
Rather than feeling jealous of someone, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you are able to witness. In this way, you are welcoming the universe to bring you some of that same love, too!
Become the future you.
There is a current 'single you' and a future 'married you.'
A great way to track down your soul mate using the Law of Attraction is to become the person who is already in the relationship- the 'married you.'
Not sure how? It's easy. Just think of yourself how you are today, and then think of the person who you will be when in your perfect, most ideal relationship. How do these two people differ? Who do you become once you're in your ideal relationship?
Maybe your answer is, "I become confident, loving, relaxed, and kind."
Whatever your answer might be, it is your clue to who you must become now. Don't wait for the relationship to manifest - you must first become the person who already has these exceptional qualities. This also includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams. So clean out your closet, empty some draw space and make some room on the shoe rack!
Remain firm against your doubt.
We live in a beautiful, obliging universe where it is absolutely possible to experience all our desires and dreams. But one of the biggest obstacles in manifesting what we want is none other than doubt. We want something, but we doubt that it's in our reach or possible. Any sense of doubt is toxic and can prevent our dreams and desires from coming true.
'Knowing' is a positive energy that can open the door of attraction wide open. Doubt, on the other hand, is a negative energy and closes that same door, locking it shut. When you're in alignment with attracting your soul mate, there is a sense of knowing he or she is on their way. So don't doubt what the universe has in store for you!
Never give up.
One of the primary reasons why the Law of Attraction doesn't appear to work is that people tend to give up before their wish is granted. It's like ordering a drool-worthy meal and walking out of the diner before your order even gets to the table. Your order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it - you'll miss out.
When it comes to love, people get so disappointed when their dates don't meet their expectations, and they don't exactly see evidence that true love is heading their way. Out of disappointment or even fear, they give up, never knowing what they missed.
Enjoy yourself now, in the present moment.
Don't just sit around your house waiting for love to find you in order to start truly living your best life.
You will attract what you are. For example: if you're a couch potato, you will attract a couch potato. So, if you desire a soul mate who is active and enjoys skiing the slopes, kayaking, and working out, you better start learning how to ski, dust off your kayak, and head to the gym.
Don't wait for your special person to arrive. Begin living your best life right now - today - and you will become super-attractive (like a magnet!) so that your "special person" will be able to spot you in a crowd.
Stop questioning how it will happen.
Your job is to positively and clearly define what you most desire and to get in alignment with that desire through all the ways described above. Your job is not the 'how,' so don't get caught up on how it's going to happen.
We live in a beautifully unique and magical universe that can bring you exactly what you dream and desire in the most unbelievable and amazing ways—getting caught up in the 'how' can impede the Law of Attraction.
If you're trying to control the 'how,' you're likely getting in the way of fate and making it much more challenging than it has to be. Let go of any ideas and thoughts about how it has to happen and allow the universe to do its magic.
A Final Word
The Law of Attraction communicates to you through your intuition, so make sure you are always listening and following those gut feelings. And if you need helping tuning into your true inner self, try giving an incredible course like Kabbalah ONE a try.
Through Kabbalah, you will learn to tap into the voice of your soul more clearly, to trust and listen to it, so that it just might guide you to your highest purpose, and in doing so, helping you to find your one true soul mate!