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What qualities do you most appreciate in each other?

Josh: Honestly, Julia is one of the most supportive person I’ve ever met. I can honestly do what I want, knowing Julia will be right by my side.
Julia: When Josh always tries to make me feel better when I’m down. He’s like preaching and stuff and it really makes me feel appreciated and cared about. I love that. He makes me a better person.

How did you meet? How long have you been together?

Josh: She slid in my Dm’s and then we just kept talking from there!
Julia: He told me to slide into his dms to show off some “nice” pieces. Just kidding bae. Honestly he found me on this instagram site that regrammed me. So he liked all my pictures:)) I dont regret though even though I thought it was strange. But we met in real life in my hometown when he decided to come visiting me. That was also strange, but it felt right! We've also been together for over a year now.

How did you get to know each other?

Josh: Me and Julia got to know each other from facetiming each other every single day til we finally met in person.
Julia: He asked me to facetime and I got so nervous cause it was just a “wow what?” moment for me. I was really insecure about my english as well. But it was fun and we talked a lot from there. I was super shy!!

Who said “I love you first”? Tell us your love-story

Josh: Me.
Julia: Me.

What do you hate most about each other?

Josh: Julia is the most stubborn person I’ve ever met. Also she makes everything so complicated.
Julia: Your room is my moms nightmare. It’s-a-mess. Also how he always win most arguments.

What do you plan for the future? Are you moving in together? If you are what country?

Josh: I never try to plan anything, but I’d love to be anywhere with Julia.
Julia: We haven’t really planned anything, but we really wanna be together somehow. don’t know when or how, but it will work out for sure!

Are you guys having kids in the future?

Josh: I have no idea if we’ll even be together in two seconds. I don’t wanna curse our luck.
Julia: Hmmm. Same as Josh.

What do you guys parents think about you having a lover so far away?

Josh: My mom loves this annoying ass.
Julia: My mom haven’t met Josh, but she was negative. It’s better now though. Dad have lowkey met Josh, but he doesn’t know haha. Dad always answer Josh facetime calls on my macbook and it’s hillarious.

Where did you die your hair Julia? How much did it cost?

Julia: I actually died my hair in Oslo. You can get more information about them @hairdoslo on instagram via dm. The price is from 1900kr. The max price you can pay is 3250kr. Depends on your hair. If you want olaplex, it will cost you 450kr more which you should pay for. It's worth it and damage your hair less. They're super talentet and I'm without doubt going back to do my hair there.

Where do you get all your money to afford all the clothes, and how often do you buy new clothes. Will you sell your clothes in the future?? You guys are soo cute

Josh: I have a job working as a server, that’s mainly how I get my money, but other than that I try going to thrift stores and finding some sick vintage pieces to sell.
Julia: I work at Toysrus a lot. I do buy clothes kinda often, but I try to balance it as much as I can with saving money for the future and Josh. I do sell clothes on tise. Please do follow me!

Where do you buy clothes? Which store do you like to buy from? What’s your fav store?

Josh: I shop everywhere. (Thrift stores, online, boutiques, malls) no specific stores I shop from, but my favorites are thrift stores because you never know what you can find if you have the patience.
Julia: I shop everywhere too. But mostly on like online shops. I try to find online stores that aren’t that known in Norway. It varies so much. Depends on what I’m looking for. The thrift store concept here in Norway is not on the same level as in the USA.

How do you afford to travel to the US? Were your parents hesitant the first time you went to visit Josh? Why doesn't he visit you too? And when will you stop being long distance?

Julia: I'm so lucky I have a stable job as a part time employee. Without this job I would never have the oppertunity to travel. I mainly look at flight tickets from Norwegian cause they offer the cheapest flights to the USA. I promise you will be shocked on the price. They're vision is all about the oppertunity for everyone to experience travelling and it's so awesome! My parents were a little hesistant the first time especially my mom. She told me she did not want me to leave, but felt bad for me saying no. Josh had the guts to visit me first after two months and he is planning to come here this summer. I've been visiting him twice already. We don't exactly know when we will stop being in a long distance, but that's our goal. There's a lot both of us need to get done, like studying for example.

What’s the hardest with long distance relationship?

Josh: The hardest thing for me is not being able to be there for moments when you need a person. For example; when I’m sad, cute dates, anniversaries.
Julia: The time different. It would be so much easier if the time different were the same. I think the most emotional and hardest is when we have to say goodbye at the airport. When we fight and the time-different block us from making up immediately.

Are you guys vlogging when Josh comes to Norway?

Josh: I love vlogging honestly, so that’s a maybe. We’ll see! I don’t wanna promise and not end up doing it,
Julia: It would be fun! It’s so fun to look back at it. I want a compact camera though.

Thank you guys for sending in the questions! You can follow us on;

@stfujosh // https://www.instagram.com/stfujosh/
@julianguyeen // https://www.instagram.com/julianguyeen/


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Hiii! It's already Thursdag and it feels so good to be off work today. I've been working this whole week! Not to mention, but #nouw30daychallenge is also finally over. I'm so excited to see who the lucky winner is. It was a though period with all the hectic weekdays omg, but I survived and I'm so happy. It was really challenging and I will try to blog as often I can with more great content! Thank you guys so much for following me here on my blog. I really appreciate it. It would be boring if no one read my blog.

The Q&A with me and Josh. I'm so sorry. I promise it will come, but it's really hard to time it with Josh schedule.

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@ellenvlora is amazing! I’m always going into her profile looking for inspiration! She just so stylish all the time and I love how she put her outfits together. She has a mix of chic, edgy, minimalism and feminim sense of style. I just adore every pic she post and god I’m so jelly of her! She just smashing all the time! It’s unbelieveable. You should def follow her!

@rachelteetyler this girl. She’s super pretty and I just love how she rock sneakers with everything. She has a colourful style with a mix of sportyness, streetstyle and tomboyish! I just love her and I’ve been following her for so long! I just absolutely adore her and her unique style.

@amyvagabondd you guys! GO CHECK HER INSTASTORY ‘PSA’. This girl is one of my fav youtubers and instagram influencer! She is so honest and open-minded and I love her sense of minimalism with a hint of both feminim and sporty style. Mostly she goes for the minimalism. She deserves so much more attention both on youtube and instagram! So go follow this gal. She is lovely.

I got so many more fav instagrammers but these are some of most ones! You can follow me on ig @julianguyeen


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As a newbie to this blogger platform I don't own the best camera, stander or remoter for the camera etc. I just use what I got. There's no point in investing $$$ equipment you might just not use at all or have any knowledge about right? Thats the situation I'm in right now. I really want this compact camera from Sony, but oh god. What should I choose between - a camera or the new iphone coming out this fall? I mean if you have any Iphone from Iphone 7 and up your camera should be pretty in handy just for photos for the blog. Unfortunately I own a iphone 6.

So, as I said theres no point in investing thousand of dollars ok, maybe not thousand, but.. What if you all sudden quit blogging? Get tired or don't really have a passion for it? I know I've been blogging for just a month or two, but I would not buy a new camera, stander or remoter right now cause I don't know if I really need that. Thats why I just stack books or use paper rolls haha! You don't need all those expensive shit in order to be the ultimate blogger! There's a lot of successful youtubers I know who started from scratch with nothing. They just used what they got and got successful on their way to the top - everyone has to start somewhere.

I still feel like I have a need for a compact camera cause I would really like to vlog whenever I travel or hangout with Josh. My phone would never have the space for all the photos and videos. But next to it I for sure would use my phone way more - my new phone in the future.. Haha! Dilemma, I might just buy both even though I have to save so much right now - DILEMMA.

So this guys, was my preach of the day. You can BE THE ultimate blogger without all those equipments anyways. It's about the content and how you work it out. Everyone got to start somewhere. Be smart and creative. Learn from youtube! Youtube is genius!

Lol okay I know that camera in the picture is pricey, but I got is as a gift from mom (a long time ago) and don't own a stander or remote. And it sucks, basically cause it's just NIKON or I don't know how to use it..

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Well here is me on the left compared to me yesterday or something. If you ever feel insecure about the girls on the blogs or instagram.. This is me as a blogger everyday. It's all just superfictional. I surround my self everyday with bloggers and famous instagrammers. I'm not affected and couldn't care less. People is too afraid to show whats really lying behind the surface and I think it's time to change that. This is the reality and you should never let the superfictional make you feel insecure. Cause theres no reason to be. It's all just superfictional. This is me on the left right now. I just woke up with puffy face and dark circles under my eyes. Without any makeup and some pimples on my forehead cause I lack sleeping. I'm about to get ready and head to work. Never compare yourself to anyone than yourself - just a reminder for you reading this post.

Happy Tuesday everyone! Show some love today

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This post is inspired by one of my fav youtubers Amy Lee from Vagabond youth. Shes a truly open-minded, honest and goofy person I love and she inspires me to be the best version I can of myself. She also have a super cozy serie called the AM with Amy that I recommend everyone to check out. She talks about love, insecurity and lots more! Basically deep stuff while she does her makeup. They're all super relaxing to listen to.

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Mondays sucks! But luckily it's winter break..

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IT WAS AWESOME! DEF THE BEST MARVEL MOVIE I'VE EVER WATCHED! We went to the cinema with no clue and went out so overwhelmed and hyped about it. It's been quite a while since I've watched such a good movie that left me with such a hyped feeling walking out of the cinema. I loved it and it's for sure one of my favs now. I recommend everyone to watch it!

I'm also thankful for my brother that went to watch it with me. We don't hangout often and I'm grateful we have gotten closer lately. It's a silly picture, but thats just him posing soo...

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I've never ever in my life worn blue eyeshadow. So I tried to do it today just to explore and I'm so determined now to wear this look for my cinema-date with my brother later. Also this super NUDE sandy matte lip it's so out of my comfort zone too, but I'm challenging myself. I wanted to share this look with you guys trynna make it look cool and stuff with that robe I bought in Vietnam.. But.. It did look kinda cool and I like how it turned out. I just gotta use whatever I have and be confident in my own skin <3

"Comfort zone is pretty, but you won't grow from it" is my fav quote ever. I hope this inspired you guys a little. If you always wanted to do youtube, update your insta feed, photoshoot, painting, dancing whatever you find a little scary. This is the signal - do it! Dare to be different.

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Hey guys. So yesterday I actually bought colourpencils, paint and stuff to paint with. I actually did paint which I never do. Lol I bought everything from my work place Toysrus. And the board I painted on is for a picture frame from IKEA. I’m so happy I did cause it was so relaxing. I was in the full concentration mood and forgot about everything outside and just relaxed. Just to say, I’m not proffesional but I used to love drawing when I was younger I used to draw all the time. I’m pretty impressed by myself and I really want to paint more! I drew this random girl from instagram from an insposite so yeah! With a little twist with green hair and darker skin.

Later me and my brother are going to the cinema to watch Black Panther! I can’t waiiit!

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Good evening guuyyys! Here are some looks with details like earrings! I love earrings and personally I feel like an outfit would look kinda boring without any accessorizes. Earrings are perfect to make your outfit more planned and look expensive. All pictures are taken with my phone and it was truly a struggle to take good pictures. I had to like stable shoeboxes, use a teddy bear I have and some other stuff to make it to the perfect angle. Someone please be my personally photographer hhaha! imagine all the selfies without the accessorizes - boring right?

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Fri-yay!! It's finally friday and the first break of the year is official. I'm so exhausted and my feets are hurting off walking all day long. I literally haven't been home the whole day and it feels so good to finally be in bed and just relax with chill music. I'm so tired I can't even figure out what's really going through my mind right now hha. Sucks tomorrow cause I got to work again. I just don't understand how I sacrifice my will so much to work and get money when that will is supposed to be on focusing on school. I mean I do focus on school and do it good on a level where I feel proud of myself, but I can't do what I want without that moneeeyh. Anyways work is love-hate relationship.. I like to keep myself busy and balance everything the best way I can.

Keeping yourself busy do really make you feel tired, but it's okay. As long as you feel good about it and don't drag you down to a level you feel like you're life is shit. It's all good. Just make sure you balance your schedule and don't be to harsh on yourself. Allow yourself to breathe for a moment and relax. I know I need that sometimes. Just like now. I feel like it's good to do something different too. Change your usual everyday schedule a bit. For etc. try to relax in a different way! I'm really trying to figure out if I should just randomly buy stuff to paint with . Even though I suck lol, but I think it will be a interesting way to spend time on myself and explore stuff that I'm not necessarry familiar with.

Here's my Focus playlist that I listen to whenever I'm on my way to school early in the morning or just want to listen to chill music and relax at whatever time.

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Heyy! Følte virkelig ikke for å legge meg i dag uten å slenge inn et "ordentlig" blogg innlegg enn kun wishlisten under som jeg blogget fort i skoletimen. Som sagt består hverdagene mine av nesten kun skole også rett på jobb og hjem igjen! Får jo ikke tid! Men tenkte, nei i dag må jeg prøve uansett hvor random, merkelig eller meningsløst denne vloggen blir. Jeg redigerte vloggen og lastet den opp akkurat kun på en time! Håper dere liker den selvom den ikke var så gjennomtenkt, men mer spontan! Forresten lagde jeg denne oreoshaken nylig nå for 1t siden, så videoen er helt fresshhh new

I know I promised a Q&A of me and Josh this week, but cause of me and Josh different schedules, timedifferent and plan I unfortunately have to delay it for next week! Hopefully it will be up by then. Thank you guys so much for all the question! I cant wait to share me and Josh Q&A - it's gonna be fuuuun

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Love is in the air - happy valentines day everyone!

Jeg har vært i et lang distanse forhold i akkurat et år nå. Hvis jeg skulle startet med å beskrive langdistanse med noen ord så ville det vært tålmodighet, tid, tillit, opp- og nedturer, tøft og verdt det. Lang distanse forhold er noe jeg aldri så for meg skulle skje meg i det hele tatt. Det er blant annet noe som kan rote masse til i hodet mitt hvis jeg fokuserer for mye på det. Det å være tålmodig er 100% regel nr 1 når du er i et lang distanse forhold. Hver gang etter en tur til han eller han til meg, planlegger vi stadig konstant når vi skal møtes neste gang. Lang distanse forhold er som en konstant countdown. Du tenker ofte på hvor mange dager og måneder det er til neste gang eller hvor lang tid igjen vi har sammen. Noen ganger er tiden usikkert. Du kan ikke si når og du vet ikke hvor. Det er en rar mix av redsel, lengsel, glede og spenning.

Uansett hvilken situasjon du befinner deg i, er personen du skulle ønske du var sammen med, alltid ubevisst i ditt bakhodet. Det som driver meg stort i forholdet er at jeg ikke kan vente med å møte han igjen neste gang. For hver dag prøver jeg å holde meg aktiv. Det suger å ikke kunne få støtten du trenger fysisk, men heldigvis gjør teknologien det mulig og alltid kunne støtte psykisk. En positiv ting med LDR er at du blir veldig selvstendig. Du er ikke avhengig av personen og du kan gjøre ting på egenhånd. Du har blant annet mer tid til venner og familie. Ofte glemmer mange som kommer i et forhold at vennene og familien eksisterer - og du bare forsvinner. Det skjer ikke i LDR. Du lærer å balansere tid og priotere.

Etter å ha vært i et lang distanse forhold så lenge har jeg lært meg selv å bli flinkere på å stole på meg selv og vokse. Jeg hadde aldri i hele mitt liv trodd jeg kunne reise til USA helt på egen hånd, bestille billetter selv, oppleve så mye helt alene og selvstendig uten min mor og far. Jeg har tjent penger helt selv og kun brukt penger fra min egen lomme. Skal jeg være ærlig, så blir jeg fortsatt sjenert for hver gang jeg møter han. Sjenert som i rødme og sommerfugler i magen. Yes CHEESY. Når det er like før vi ser hverandre, så bare kiler det overalt i kroppen. Jeg kan bare ikke tro at jeg lever i realiteten hver gang. Det føles ikke ekte. Den følelsen av å lengte etter noen så lenge og endelig få se dem igjen er ubeskrivelig. Det er HYPERGLEDE. Du har jobbet tålmodig for noe så lenge og når du er der så tenker du YES! It's a gold-worth payoff!

LDR er tydelig ikke en dans på roser. Du opplever mange nedturer og oppturer. Når du kommer i en krangel er det lett å gå å legge deg uten å ha ordnet opp. Jeg skal si dere tidsforskjellen utfordrer meg og Josh grusomt hver gang det skulle være tilfellet. Det er mange ganger begge to ikke får ordnet opp før vi legger oss pga tidsforskjellen. Men jeg syntes det er noe positivt i det og. Selv om det ikke føles greit å våkne opp til en klump i magen er vi nødt til å snakke. Ta voksen rollen og tørre å snakke. Til og med etter en hel dag eller natt uansett hvor på kloden du bor skal det ordnes. Det bygger tilliten og båndet så mye sterkere. Vi kan ikke unngå hverandre for det blir for dumt. Vi vil jo aldri se hverandre igjen hvis ikke. Jeg vet jeg ikke hadde greid å leve med det uten å ordne opp.

Jeg stoler på Josh 110%! Ja, til og med fra andre siden av jordkloden. Tillit er så viktig! Er så mange som spør meg om jeg er redd for at han skal cheate på meg. Svaret er nei. Men selvfølgelig! Ikke vær naiv! Om du kjenner personen så pass godt skal du ha en klar mage følelsen om hva slags forhold du går inn i. For å få tillit er kommunikasjon en så viktig faktor. Jeg kan leve fint uten å snakke med Josh to dager - en uke - en hel måned! Så lenge han kommuniserer med meg og holder meg oppdatert! Den gangen han dro til Filipine i en hel måned hadde han så vidt wifi. Det var basically et helvete haha, men jeg klarte meg sykt bra. Du bare lengter ekstra. Hvis det noen ganger skulle være et tilfelle jeg ikke får en oppdatering blir jeg bekymret. Ikke fordi jeg tror han cheater på meg haha, men mer om det er har skjedd han noe vondt/galt. Så pass mye stoler jeg på han. Slik utfyller kommunikasjon og tillit. Til syvende og sist er de tillit og kommunikasjon de viktigste faktorene i et forhold om det er 5 min unna eller en halv jordklode unna.

Our 2nd V-day and we never had the opportunity to celebrate but its okay. Todays our 1st year anniversary anyways - which we can’t celebrate together either 💔 Happy 1st and V-day boo, u make me v happy

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THE BEST OF THE WEEK

Go out and eat for 100kr is my fav week ever. I only had the oppertunity to go out twice tho:/

THE WORST OF THE WEEK
The marketing test I had at school. I felt like I did really bad on the test compared to what I usually do. But it’s okay, this life will move on

SONG OF THE WEEK
Stay with me - Jay Park

PERSON OF THE WEEK
My brother Anton. All though we’re home alone for a month I can tell he is trying his best to help me at home with all the responsibility. He buy food and take care of dads birds when I’m at work and do the laundry. He also helped me shoveling snow at 11pm to 12am. I’m so happy he is there and I’m pretty sure I would have a hard time taking care of everything alone. I don’t even need to doubt him not doing his homework!

THOUGHT OF THE WEEK
Save MONEY and start practising towards the driving license! I should have started a long time ago

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