Friends, readers, enemies. We have come to an end. 30 days have passed by which means today is the last day of the #noue30daychallenge and my serie "30 reasons to build up a good self confidence".

If I should be totally honest my plans from the beginning was to publish a movie today on the last day where I tied the bag together. But didn't take any actions and did just prioritize it high enough. But I still want to start making more content in movable material. It will come.

From one thing to an other. Where should I start and where should I begin? I had a vision of inspire mostly youths to see the value of having a good and strong self confidence when starting planning this project. If it turned out that way? I hope, but don't know and I let it stay like that. I don't have to know as I don't see the feedback as my main focus at the moment. What's my focus is to stay true to myself on this platform as I want to write down every single letter from my heart AND that is what I hope have inspired at least some girl or boy. Self confidence is a super power and I can not count on the statement too few times. Here is a gathered list of all the titles I've written about:

Last point is just that you need it! You need confidence, not to survive life, but to live life. I love the difference and what a huge significance it posses.

So to finish my serie I hope you who read it got something out of it. Even if you didn't read it all I hope there is at least some word or sentence that got stuck in your mind which you'll further on carrie with you the rest of your life. Also I am super happy that my four very warm friends wanted to share their wisdom speaking of this subject, it means A LOT! <3

I am super happy I did it and maybe another serie will show up sooner or later - the future will tell!

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

Nellie - Esther - Ellen - Felix

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Good evening lovers <3
I said in some posts ago that I were suppose to publish some captured photos from when I celebrated my 19th birthday. Thought I didn't have the photos on my computer until just recently when I saw them on my hard drive, thx Feliix.

So the celebrated started at this chickens' house where we glamed us up together <3 Ofc we needed to take some pictures to eternalize the day. She is good that girl.

A truffle burger with some corn on the cob // For drink it became a strawberry mojito.

The girl crew gathered AND the superman behind the camera, Felix. Unfortunately he is not on any pictures from the evening....

Two beauties that wanted to spend the night with me. Ellen & Mikaela <3

After that we headed to the city where we had a reservation at TGI Fridays'. A little classic when celebrating someones birthday. Anyhow there we sat, talked, ate just as perfect food as usual AND I got a super nice gift from these nuggets. So thankful for them <3 A calm and relaxed evening with good company. Perfect in my opinion.

If your reading this girls AND Felix. Thank you for your gift and thank you for wanting to celebrating with me. You mean the world to me. XoXo

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#29 - You'll live a healthier life!

By this far I've given you 28 reasons why you and me should prioritize our self confidence. I don't doubt for a second that the list could me made longer, but in the end everything comes back to this; YOU'LL LIVE A HEALTHIER LIFE! A healthy life does not only include what we eat and how much we exercise. In addition the psychological health is just as important for a sustainable lifestyle although we tend to forget that very easily. What also is easy to think is the way we enclose the meaning of having a good self confidence. I can only speak for myself, but my first thoughts of a good self confidence automatically comes to the fact of us being pleased of how we look, and our personality. But there is a high mountain of other aspects that includes when you're having a good self confidence. That's exactly why I wanted to do this serie during the #30daysnouwchallenge. 30 days, 30 reasons, 1 decision but a hundreds of procedures for making it to the top of the mountain. I have a strong desire to spread this word for the powerful purpose. It's like many other things in life, we don't understand how much we need it until we have it. Maybe you can't see the purpose of building up your self confidence as it sounds like nonsense, yet it should be common sense for every human existing. Every girl and boy living in our society deserves to know that they are created uniquely which is why, according to my opinion, we should ban every kind of comparison. We can't compare with each other as we are created different. Just as we can't have 11 goalkeepers on a soccer field we can't have a billion of the same people in our world. Easy math.

You got my back girl.
You got my back boy.
Whoever you are, whatever you dream of, whenever you want to do it - go for it!

Sincerely yours,
Hanna


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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#28 - You'll be satisfied with who you are and how you look

I think many of us tend to connect confidence with our look. Our bodies and our face. A good self confidence is obviously much more than that and fact is maybe you can have a confidence in one area and in some area you don't have it. But I want to highlight the complexion of our look since it's such a big and existing issue in our society.

I would lie for myself and you if I didn't say I do have struggled massively with my confidence speaking of my look. Some days it's fine and some days a catastrophe. My skin has been a major issue which I've also shared a lot about here on my blog, and will continue hereafter since there is always room and space for more encouragements.

Complexations with our bodies will more or less always exist, I think. But it will just change as your age and body develops and forms. But what I believe that a good self confidence will make is the knowledge of acceptance. You can accept that this is who you are, this is how you are created and in the long term be satisfied with it, in a general perspective. We are humans, we will face tougher days. We will face difficulties. We will face resistance. We will face the devils who will in all his power try to push us down. But we are God's beautiful created. Our body doesn't define who we are. It's just a shield to bear us. I just wish every girl and boy knew they are enough just as they are. There is an enormous amount of words that could be said concerning this topic... But just remember this;

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you." - Song of Solomon 4:7

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Good evening. Yeah, here we are again with the ordinary post of the day, my lessons of the week.

* Dreaming of exploring America
As many of you probably are aware of it's super normal to do a bigger travel after graduating, which I believe is super fun. But what's in common with all these travels is the destination. A majority of all these travelers decides to explore Asia or Australia, which I don't doubt for a second is something extraordinary beautiful. But I realized that I if I should make a bigger trip, which I WILL one day, I don't think I want to explore the culture of Asia but I would rather like to explore the other side of the continent, America. Untied States of America, maybe Canada. I don't have any countries in specific yet, but I know I want to see that side of the world. I believe you can find some really nice places even though it's not the Asian white sand beaches with turquoise water.

* Missing my math-lessons
Who knew two year ago that me, Hanna, would write and confess something like this. Don't remember how much I've shared here on my blog when it comes to specific subjects in school. Briefly summarization during my three years in high school I went from not being interested in math at all to totally getting into it as I really started to understand it. But that's a long story. So the other day this week I helped my little sister (10 years) with her homework in math and I realized that a little piece inside of me miss the whole thing about it. To be honest I don't really know if it's the math in itself or it's the thought of me being able to achieve something by hard work. With exaggeration I thought math-lessons where the most fun one, because I felt that I actually was in the game. It's hard to understand it, yes. But it gave me something more than just math calculations.

* I'm a "all or nothing" person
This week I came to realize that I think I am a "all or nothing" person, at least when it comes to some points. For instance makeup, I either wear full on glam or going bare faced. Training, I prefer to do hard-core workouts rather than sessions with a low intensity (yees I've though learned it's very lenient with low intensity workouts). Events, when I'm having parties or events I love to go full in as I want the guests to enjoy themselves to the fullest. I bet there is many more specific things but these are the ones I spontaneously came up with.

* A morning person is here!
Well, I gotta admit, not that it's something bad, but I think I am a morning person. During this week I've been working three days where I had to go up 6a.m. As incomprehensible it sounds I enjoy going up early knowing I haven't wasted the day. There is a random feeling going up early being the only one in the house awake. BUUT there is one claim for this, MY BEAUTY SLEEP. I don't like to wake up early unless I've gotten at least 7-8h of sleep. Maybe the exact moment from the alarm ringing until physically pulling the blanket of and standing up is that exciting. Rather the feeling when your up that is good.


Love to find old memorable pictures. These ones taken a Friday night in October 2016 where I also had short hair. I think mine is going off soon since I miss the hair I have on the pictures.

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Remember this when you enter a new week tomorrow. Decide carefully who you want to have your life. Is it building you up or is it tearing you down?

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Three favorites from my not so big camera roll. A new phone is on the way so hopefully the camera roll can grow its size a little.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#27 - Fear will not rule over your life!

THIS IS MY FAVORITE! Point after point is checking off and we are heading towards the finish line, for this time. Now let's talk about F E A R. I hate it. I've come to hate it so much during the start of this year. Fear breaks us down, fear gives us anxiety, fear makes us miss out of living our life to the fullest. BAD SELF CONFIDENCE is the only reason. We hesitate our knowledge, our abilities, ourselves. We think we don't deserve the outcome. Fear fear fear. What if you and me started to live life where fear didn't exist? It would be upside down. Confidence breaks the fear down to pieces. Fear belongs to hell. Confidence belongs to us!

DON'T LET FEAR WIN OVER YOU.
DON'T LET FEAR RULE OVER YOUR LIFE.


I'll end it here for this day. Hugs.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#26 - You can put more energy with helping others as your not that trapped in yourself

Some people will never see the blessed gift of helping others. Some people will and some people already does. If your not that person, take a moment and I will tell you. Helping others; there are tons of different ways to help others people, young as old, girl as boy - everyone. Listen, hear, talk, hang out, smiling, laughing, crying, driving them somewhere, give time, the list could be made long. But we tend to live in a society where our own well being is the only thing that matters. It does. It does matter as it's an essential point for living a healthy life. But when it crosses to line and comes to a lifestyle of egoism, it's wrong. I believe that helping others creates something inside of us that can't be described by words. We learn to see others needs, we grow in ourselves when building someone else up. Speaking of refutations when it comes to topic is the fact that some people mean that it all comes around with us being egoism, since we help others to satisfy ourselves. It can be like that, yes. That's up to person from person. But I also believe that there are some golden pieces in this world that have a genuine heart desiring to help others. We need more of them. We are created into this world, along with millions of millions other people where every single individual is facing their difficulties in life, even the one closest to us. Our mother, sister, brother, classmate.... The absolutely least thing we could do in this world is to take care of each other. Of course not all humans, I believe that's someone else's task to fix. But just a smile, a "I can do this", helping your mother with just doing the dishes. The small things are big things.

We need our confidence in the baggage for doing this. Maybe you are already helping people in your life. But just imagine how many more there could be on your list if you didn't have the need of focusing on yourself constantly.

Is my point clear enoguh? Can you take with something?
Actually the only thing you need to remember is that, take care of the ones in your surroundings. Be the one person who is helping others. In many cases we can't see the reason in front of us. But one day, one day EVERYTHING will make sense.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#25 - You can trust your instincts more, when something feels good/not good

Let's keep it simple and short this day. During some of the points I feel I've pushed it to be able to get down an explanation. But sometimes that's not necessary since the title says it all, in my opinion. Anyhow. With a good self confidence I believe you can trust your instincts more. Why? Because I believe you've come to that stage when your that aware of yourself you know what's good and not good for you. But maybe to a more important perspective, which is that you dare to trust your instincts since mistakes doesn't harm your identity. It's a good power and strength to possess.

As many other things in life there is two sides of the coins. Especially when it comes to the thing with instincts. Some people don't think it's good to act from your instincts as it can make us choose not what's best for us. I agree to a certain point. I also think that it's a good strength to act from it since you sometimes don't have to process everything, you just do it and see if it bears or bursts. It's a subtle limit and the only solution is to learn how YOU are working and find a balance.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Happy <3 - day

Good evening, hope you've had a good day. Maybe some extra love from your closest. I found these verses in the bible and it instantly became a favorite. It opened my eyes and gave perspective of how important love is - in all forms! This day is meant to be a day where we love a little extra, but why not love everyday, all year around.

Love in kind words. Love in actions. Love in appreciation. Love in caring.
Love. Love. Love.
What would our world be without love?
&
Imagine our world with more love towards each other.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Hi there! Here to present the last guest writer on my serie. This time Nellie. A girl with a big heart and good fingers to put down words in scripture. I am super happy she wanted to participate and give us some good words. Here it is:

Self confidence.
I’ve heard that self confidence is walking into a room, assuming everyone likes you. It’s an interesting thought, but I’m not quite sure where I am about in the room of confidence. I surely struggle with this topic, and I think that I’m not the only one who does. That’s what makes it such an important topic. To reach true confidence, the key is to know who you are in Christ. I believe, when you fully comprehend your identity in Christ, who you are called to be, you can walk in true self confidence. I’ve gone many years thinking I’ve been confident, but as soon as someone pushes something on my stack of cards, everything falls apart. You can build your confidence on a job, on a partner, on a house, on a friend, but all of those are inconsistent and will sooner or later fail you. When the thing you build your life on fails, you fail. You fall apart. Everything you knew is gone, and you’re back to square 1. The only consistent thing in this world is Jesus. He never fails, so my advice is to simply build your confidence on him and your world will change. Your thought pattern will be different, your focus shifts from yourself to Him and loving others has never been so easy. When you live to glorify someone else but you - something comes alive inside. It’s like a little seed starting to grow and it’s the most beautiful thing. So my advice? Spend time with Jesus and your confidence will rise. Keep your eyes on him and focus on figuring out who he says you are - and everything will change.
Trust me.

- Nellie

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#23 - You'll be more free as others opinion will not be that crucial anymore

I would, with the hand on the heart, say that we are living in a society where others opinion has a huge impact in our life. Me, myself and I included, in many ways. But it's with a sad feeling I'm observing this conclusion as I wished it weren't the case, but it is. why are we always so caught up of what others will think about our actions. Fear. Bad Self Confidence. I guess that's the answer. This statement of the day could actually be the most accurate speaking of myself and my own experiences. There are a big amount of times I've been taking another direction or been doing differently just because of the fear of getting judged by others. It's stupid. I'm so happy that I've realized this of myself so a change could be made. I should not lie and say that the problem doesn't exist anymore, cause it does to a certain point. But I'm way to sick and tired of spending my energy to get approved by humans that doesn't have that big of impact in my life. Hopefully that shows here on my blog!

I promise, every battle you fight, every teardrop that touch your cheek, every challenge you face for the cause of your growth speaking of self confidence will be worth everything! Everything. Your world will be shaken. Don't be afraid to show who you are. The friends and people that accepts that will come sooner or later. Maybe it's already the ones you have, maybe not. But don't start to live life with a fake identity just because you want to stay where you are in your comfort zone. Be free! Free in your actions, free in your style, free in yourself.

Wow. Feels like my writing is going in circles. But my point is, NEVER stop living your life because your afraid of what others will think!

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Pictures from this Saturday when we were out celebrating my birthday. Ofc this lady was by my side <3 more pictures will come as I took some with the camera. Hopefully they turned out okay at least. Anyhow, I just came home from a long work day, and in some hours it's time for football practice. So maybe a power nap for an hour wouldn't hurt anyone? :D

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#22 - You can take control over your mind when something bad happens

It's time to check off another point of my little series. Number 22 out of 30 and today's point is: you can take control over your mind when something bad happens. This one goes much hand in hand as the one I wrote about yesterday which was about seeing adversities as a lesson and not a failure.

To have control over your mind is beyond easy, almost impossible sometimes, at least that's what it feels. Sometimes you don't know why you are reacting in a certain way. Why you said something and so on. But I believe that you can, with a strong self confidence, take control over your mindset better. In different situations we tend to give a first impression reaction, negative or positive, which is one thing. But the danger appears when this impression is creating a feeling inside of us and further on makes us live by that feeling. An example is to maybe sing a solo in front of many people. First reaction when getting the question is probably terrifying - it's not gonna happen! Actually this situation is pretty accurate for my own life. I like to sing, or I love to sing and sometimes we have different worship scenarios in our youth meetings. Everything goes super good until the moment I have to sing alone and suddenly lead the band into something. A huge clump in the stomach is growing and the sweat slowly starts to shine, and when push comes to shove it's all about fear and me thinking I'm not good and capable enough to handle it. The more you think about it the more you believe it which will in the long run bite you up from the inside as the bad confidence cheers on the fear. FEAR SHOULD NEVER WIN! But when your able to come to the point where you aloud yourself to think and believe, you're above the demon of fear. You take control over your mind. It sounds cliché, but our mind, thoughts and feeling is always fighting about us. Actually, I believe that it's the devil that want to take control and win us over to hell. Because fear, bad self confidence, anxiety, every bad aspect ONLY exists in hell - and there they shall stay. It's a superpower to have the ability to fight the good fights and not allowing negative adversities to knock you down.

WE ARE SUPERSTARS IN OUR OWN WAY!

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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Hello there. This week we gotta keep it short as I only have one point speaking of my lessons of the week. But that's life sometimes. But an important one though. Here it is;

* I think we all need an escape thing:
During this week me and Esther were going in the car and came in to the subject about having a passion for something. Like Esther having her horses and me having football. The talk made me think and realize how important it is to have an "escape thing". A thing where we can just be in our own bubble doing exactly what we love without thinking about hundreds of different other things. Understand that using the word escape can be misleading and negative charged. But I see it from the other side of the coin, as something positive as well as important. Escaping from the world to be with your true self, what that is, where that is, only you can know. As I mentioned earlier football is by far my escape place. Being in the moment, playing, there is nothing occupying my mind as the only focus is on the football, Actually training in general is medicine for me. Love to push the limit, love when the sweat drops drippin down in the mouth and the salty taste touches the tongue, and last but not least I love the feeling afterwards. So, FIND YOU A THING OR A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN TURN OF THE WORLD AND JUST BE.

Played a little with my editing for the picture. But I really like how it ended up since it, in some way describes life like it would be to different worlds. Sometimes life is like heaven with pink fluffy clouds and sometimes life is just as plain as the snow and the brown sleeping trees.
What do you think?

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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30 reasons to build up a good self confidence:

#21 - An adversity becomes a lesson rather than a feeling of failure

Guys - read this carefully as it can change your life more or less upside down. With a good self confidence an adversity becomes a lesson rather than a feeling. Adversity, it's not a question if you'll face it, it's a question of when. Everyone, despite life situation, will face adversity in different ways. But let's make something positive out of the difficulties. The question of adversity in itself it's not the problem since it's a common concept happening in our lives since we're just humans. But the big question is how you face the adversity. Are you blaming yourself? Do you fall apart? Are you ready to rise up and do better? Are you ready to learn from it?

With a good self confidence you can learn from different adversities. You can accept that it happened and how it happened and most important move forward from it. Friends, readers, you are not alone. You are not alone with facing up's and down's in life. Maybe the physical thing is not the same as we live different lives. But the same principal remains. Therefor we need to stand united in this, hold hands so it will be easier to rise towards the light.

You're not a failure just because you're failing.
You're not worth less just because you jumped in to the wrong path.
Your future isn't crushed because of your past - everyday is a new chance for change.

Sincerely yours,
Hanna

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