There is a right way and a wrong way to ask a Ukrainian woman out. Do it the right way and your invitation will be accepted. When that happens your love life will improve, and a lot of awesome times await. Chances are, you have developed skills over the years that have resulted in getting the girl. Although true, you must remember that Ukrainian women are a unique bunch. Here’s a step by step guide on how to ask a Ukrainian woman out the right way .
Don’t Start with Hey
This is a super boring approach that men use to get a woman’s attention every day. Ukrainian women are hit on by foreign men all the time. They have heard, “Hey”, “What’s up”, “Hi” and all the other commonly used greetings. Increase your chances of her saying yes, or at least addressing your existence, by greeting her in her native language. Pryvit means “hi” or you can go with the more advanced, “Pryvit. Jak spravy?”, meaning, “Hello. How are you?” if you think you can pull it off. The reasoning behind this is simple, greeting a woman in her native language shows extra effort. It shows that you respected the culture enough to brush up on some Ukrainian and that is impressive. That additional effort makes women more likely to take a moment to see what you have to say. Asking a girl out is impossible if you don’t get a moment to talk to her. Remember that this advice works online as well.
Shake Her Hand
Obviously, this only applies in person. You may think this is the last thing you want to do when trying to get a date, but it is customary for people to shake hands when they greet each other. The thing is, you want to wait until she goes in for the handshake. If she does, consider this a good sign. At this point, you can either shake her hand or kiss her hand. Both are acceptable. The only thing you want to avoid is ignoring her outstretched hand altogether.
Make Some Small Talk
Once you have her attention, make a little small talk. You can introduce yourself then take a humorous approach, ask her about herself, or make general but interesting small talk as a transition to actually asking her out. The point of this is to help build a comfort level to increase the chance of her accepting your date invitation once you do ask her out. During this small talk, focus on keeping her engaged and keeping the conversation flowing. A great tip is avoiding yes or no questions so there are fewer pauses during the interaction. Also, watch your body language and eye contact. You want to be confident, make sure you smile often and maintain eye contact. Most importantly, don’t let the small talk go on too long. You don’t want to bore her or occupy too much of her time.
Ask Her Out
At this point, ask her out. You can lead up to the question with something like, “What are you doing later?” and follow that with, “Would you like to join me for (fill in the blank)?” You can go with dinner, a more casual café date or, even better, an event you have tickets to like a live show. Then all there’s left to do is get her answer. As for those asking a woman out online, you obviously aren’t going to travel to see her just yet, so a “date” means setting aside some time – maybe an hour or two, to get to know each other over the internet. Ask her to join you for a cup of coffee online or even offer to have dinner with her over an internet connection. This may be difficult due to time zones, but you can make it work.
And there you have it. Asking a Ukrainian woman out doesn’t differ much from asking any other woman out. If your approach makes her feel comfortable and mutual attraction is on your side, you’ll have a date in no time. Then, you can switch your focus to ensuring that the first date goes well. That’s the only way you’ll get a second date after all!
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