Self love and confidence

Self love and confidence are so important topics to talk about. I’m all about spreading positivity and self love. That’s why I wanted to post this. So, I’ve been struggling with my confidence for soo long. I have felt insecure and I’ve compared myself to other girls. I don’t have a flat stomach, I don’t have a thigh gap, I have self harm scars and stretch marks. Recently or a few months ago I started to slowly love myself. Not just my body, but my mind and soul. I have stopped comparing myself to others. Because the only person I should compare myself to is my yesterday self. It’s all about growing and bettering yourself everyday. Self love and confidence take time to create, but it is possible. I have started to love myself, like I said. And I think that as people we shouldn’t judge anyone, because everyone is different and unique in their own way. Spread love and positivity instead of hate and judgement. “When you know you are great, you have no reason to hate.”

To fall in love with yourself is a key to true happiness. I’ve learned to be happy and I actually smile when I stand in front of a mirror. Of course there are parts of my body I’m not 100% confident with, like my stomach, but I’m working on it. I know I’m beautiful in my own unique way, and I think that it’s amazing that I can say that.

Everyone’s beautiful, including you reading this. You are amazing and beautiful and unique. Love yourself. We all have our insecurities, but they aren’t imperfections. I might not be pretty in everyone’s eyes, but I’m pretty in my own eyes. And that’s what matters the most, how you see yourself. It’s a beautiful feeling, smiling at the mirror instead of crying, like it has been in my past.. I want you to feel confident and love yourself. Because loving yourself is bravery. You are gorgeous. You are beautiful. You are strong. Be brave. We have just this one body for our whole life. Don’t spend your life hating yourself, when you can spend your life loving yourself. And loving yourself is not selfish. I promise you, once you fall in love with yourself, your body, your soul, your mind, I know deeply and truly that you will be happy. And beauty starts in your mind, not in the mirror. Remember that.