I just had recently list 4 items on Mercari (selling app) yet I already had other listings that just sat there and sat there. If you are new to selling online, putting effort into it and watching for a sell can bring all of your excitement down with every notification that pops up on your phone. That doesn't say : Hey, You made a Sale.
But that’s when I called my own self out. Whenever dread and saddens wanted to celebrate of not seeing a sale. I would stop and ask why then observe on the answer that came next. It was usually nothing that could actual seem definite.
It was mainly comparing how my items weren't doing. I would wound up on some successful sellers page and critique my own photos. Bouncing back and forth between my on page and the sellers.
Should put my shoes on and model them?
But theirs's sold for 80 and that didn’t even put a toe in the shoe.
How about creating a flatlay for the crop top?
Hers sold for 45 dollars…….. Mine is $15. What should I do?
That had to stop because I was loosing . My motivation and self discipline got thin. I had miss managed my time to the point that I was watching others sellers get their items sold time and time again.
I had to stop because I would have given up on myself and dream.
So I stopped paying attention to the recently sold items, my current listing and just visualized what I wanted to happen instead.
Later on, Mothers day was the next day so I had purchased my mother a late gift. Like really late, it had to arrive Tuesday.
When I saw the prices for the I bought for gifts for her that came to $20. Instead of me fearing over the fact that I have to spend money at all. I just thought that will I earn it right back and even more. For this one I guess 70 cents more lol. I love this.
It was about going within myself and canceling out everything.
I have done this before and just like I said in my last post practicing visualization is better that forcing yourself to visualize. Especially when you are so glued to the current reality you see everyday. If you are in that boat right now, realize your not alone. I have been there and I am torn down the beliefs that stopped me.
Now, I am still building my online business(s)
To sum it up
3 I have a way to let money come to me.
By having an business, whether it is built by brick or code. Is a way to earn money. Yet, it's not the only way to manifest money.
So try to create a "passive" stream of income that you enjoy doing and it works within your hours.
2 Visualized it, Visualize it , Visualize it
It might feel strange when you are starting out and all you can see is black.
One of the ways I improve my imagination is to open my eyes and close them. Try to remember as much as I can then doing this process over again. For five times or more until my imagination becomes effortless and parallel to the current reality.
1 Set an intention and feel it done
I will make this back or more. Is what I said to myself earlier in this post.
I am implementing this more and more now. By practicing this deliberately everyday. I cant do anything but get better than I was the day before.
I have found that its best when I have no other conflicting thoughts or worrying emotions. When I just feel good and calm. Which is either when I'm waking up in the bed, going to sleep, or with meditation.
Try to just do one thing at first, manifest with visualizing or manifest with prayer. Just do it and do it so often that you build up faith with YOURSELF and the technique.