I just left my blog for a hot minute, and it has already been almost two months since my last trace on this platform.
I have been going through some things, and dealing with some other things. During this time, I have done a lot of thinking as well. For things to not work out the way you wanted it to, they are ultimately working out for the better - you just need to give it some time. I am a firm believer of the saying "everything happens for a reason", but whatever the reason is, it may not be apparent to you right away. This will leave you questioning and wondering why. However, once you have given it some time, the reason will reveal itself in one form or the other. I guess I can not put this into words in a way that makes much sense, but you will know when it happens.
A shift in your situation will result in a shift in your everyday life. Your routines may change, your tasks may change, and how you have been living your everyday life will definitely change too. But these changes are what paves the way for the good things that are lined up for you. Just think about it this way; if you keep living a routine-based life, chances of you seeing and finding out new things are slim to none. If you isolate yourself, you are also blocking the endless opportunities that are out there from finding you.
Just because things don't work out right now, does not mean that you are on the wrong track of life. No matter what happens to you, it all comes down to how you handle it and deal with it. You can choose to feel bad for yourself, or you can keep your head up high and wait for the better things to come.
I never regret my decisions, because at one point, that was exactly what I dreamed of and hoped for.
Two years ago I would never have imagined myself to be where I am today. Both with the good things and the bad things that has happened along the way. But that is also what makes me think - what will happen two years from now?
It is hard to predict the future, because not everything will go accordingly to your plans anyway. For that reason, I think it is important to not only have a positive outlook on your life and endless possibilities, but also having the drive and ambition to succeed. At the end of the day, this is your life and there is no one who can live your life for you.
Only you can make it better.