Lately I’ve been watching documentaries on YouTube and suddenly I came across this video above. If you skipped the link you might want to reconsider watching it.

Sincerely speaking after watching this my heart skipped a little bit. I had to sit back and examine myself whether if am a Victim of this and sadly so are you. What? We are being programmed? I have no idea how to react to this outrageous way of making money. I don’t know about you but personally I no longer trust the system, whether it’s Medical care, pharmacies,technology, the school or any kind of progress in the world. You might think am crazy for saying this ,well no am not and I have my personal reasons for saying this. I remember two years ago I would delete my Facebook, YouTube and some other social media apps I can’t remember or no longer Use and randomly downloaded them back. Questions are; Am I being programmed now? Are you being programmed to read this? What’s the point with all this really?

I can’t go anywhere without my phone. I would rather miss a bus and be late for work than forget my phone at home. Am sure other youth are experiencing the same issue. Imagine subconsciously taking your phone and using it, Subconsciously? That means you’re being controlled subconsciously.

Although these people have apparently come out of the dark and exposed this information which am really thankful for, the thing that aggravates me the most is, the owners were aware of the risk of creating these websites or apps from the very beginning and still carried on with whatever they wanted to produce and they are now telling us how these tools are a reflection of us? Am sure these people attended psychological courses of course all human brains have a tendency of adapting. Whereby we adjust to the things surrounding us. If these owners of Facebook are really that concerned about humanity, it’s as easy as shutting these so called tools down unless if there are some other hidden intentions they aren’t telling us.

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Numerous times we are apprehensive about being in situations that cause us discomfort. We unceasingly feel the need to seek solutions and overcome distraught. We fear uncertainty and situations the cause us imbalance.

Life is a journey, in order to learn we have to experience challenges and adversities. Without these components we barely would be able to overcome uneasiness. We won’t value the most substantial things in life. We would be spoiled brats who take everything for granted without any sort of gratitude.

Now I’m very much aware that the majority especially here in Swedish are anti God believers but in these cases, God uses bad situations to make an entrance in to our lives. He also uses such situations to prepare us for the next level. When we are experiencing fear, panic attacks we are weak. In these cases God make us stronger and prepare us to be a better version of us on a different and advanced level.

Digging deeply in to the title of this post and its message is that a times we have to disconnect from our Childhood friendships, a 4hour highly paying job, and all things that you ever thought brought you happiness, in order for us to be permitted and promoted to the next level.
Haven’t you noticed that nothing lasts forever in life. Everything is temporary, even life itself is temporary, people give birth while other are growing old and the rest are dying or already dead. Identify tragedy as something preparing you for victory.

Xoxo 😘💋😘

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It will shock you that some of my family members don’t know I have a middle name. In fact most of all have no idea I have a middle name. Oh well I do. I was named Flavia by my grand father. He usually when he needed my presence used to call me Josephine twice and if I happen not to respond he called me Flavia. That’s how I got my middle name. I don’t normally introduce myself using the name Flavia I think it’s probably because people are more familiar with calling me Josephine and am used to it but from now on I’m going to use Flavia more often.

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Apathy? Apathy! Apathy what did you do?
You blocked my courageous impulses because of the past disappointments. I can no longer fulfill my longed life desires. You bath me with your temporary comfort yet live me alone in depression during the toughest times. Apathy you see what you have caused me? I can no longer reach out to the ones who supported because you blinded me with your sarcastic humor. 

Apathy you are a demon. A demon I mostly want rebuked. You cause me regret, frustration, unsatisfaction and deterrent. You are a distraction, limitation but also a failure because I won’t abide to being one of your victims.

Apathy Apathy Apathy look what you made me do! I can no longer long for more. You still make me feel like it’s too late to recover and make a change. This isn’t what I signed up for. Am helplessly, compulsively squandered by your mediocrity.
Stay away from me Apathy.
Am better than this and too used to You to be afraid of you.
Apathy Apathy leave this place

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Dedication requires separation.
The closer you get to your destiny the smaller your crowd becomes.
It takes time and reflection to make the right decision and to be consistent with that. We have to shut down the connection with people around us and listen to God’s will. Do you ever sit down and wonder what if we have senses that we have to exercise in order for us to take advantage of them!
God can only communicate with us when we are alone. How did I get to know this? Here is an example. Let’s say you are having a Three way conversation. Two of your partners are speaking simultaneously. It’s hard to master what both could be saying right? Well it’s the same thing with God. He wants to be heard and understood. And He will only come around when you are by yourself. What separates us is transformation. The possibility for us to change. If you do what you always do you will always be where you’ve always been and to move on from that you have to separate yourself from whatever that could be possibly holding you back. It could be alcohol, friendships, Bad behavior and the list goes on. Be not conformed to this world

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Well I want to go out of my comfort zone and discuss the top 5 things that I can come up with that men can’t resist. This is like some kind of tips to the single ladies who are ready to get out there and mingle 😃😉😃.

We are all aware that in Sweden majority of women aren’t afraid of approaching the guys they happen to be attracted to. Haha A woman over here will basically walk up to you and let you know how much she likes you and there after ask you to exchange numbers.

Well not all of us have that much confidence 😃. We would rather die than let a guy know we like him. Don’t get me wrong, it’s literally the worst feeling ever, but we still hang in there😃🤷‍♀️😃.
Going  back to the subject, what are the things that attract men?

1. Physical appearance: Men are mostly drawn to beautiful and sexy women, still appearances come from the way you carry yourself. How comfortable are you in your own skin? It also depends on the amount of self esteem one has. If you think you are ugly and you tell yourself that every time, eventually someone else will sense your insecurities, whereby insecurities aren’t attractive. It’s important that you as a woman know, feel and tell yourself that you are beautiful.

2.Character: Your sense of humor plays a huge role in attracting not only just men but also friends. A happy woman is an amazing woman. Now am not saying  that you should go around acting happy even when you are not 😬no. People  with great humor are attractive simply because it makes people want to be around them.

3.independent: Men are drawn to women who have their own life together and have things going for themselves. It makes them feel like you are an interesting person . Also men love women who are intelligent. When u take part in things that interest you, you earn more knowledge and experience.

4.opinionated: It’s boring to always back down to a guy when he does something opposed by the  majority. Who wants to  date a sycophant that  sets no boundaries?
Don’t be a “know it all” either, maintain the balance and who knows maybe you might change his perspective about something.

5.scent: This is my personal opinion.   Perfumes stimulate a sense of attraction. I think perfumes have a way of indicating something depending on the smell it has. I strongly also feel that odor plays a big deal in the qualities of attraction.  So always smell good, what’s there to lose anyway? 



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Despise not the small beginnings.
-Zechariah 4:10

Great leaders start from the bottom. They don’t start as managers, mayors, presidents or CEOs. They all start with menial things.

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Don’t you all just hate when someone asks you about your dreams and with dreams I mean like a dream job for instance and then they hit you with that reality card.

Honestly most of us could have been in a better place if we didn’t have the wrong people in our circles. Most determined people are dragged down below their level because they are surrounded by people with poisonous mind sets.

I’ve met a lot of people who wanted to accomplish their goals but they ended up being unable to achieve them all the in name of listening to people’s experiences. Now don’t get me wrong. Some people have good and bad experiences. Am not trying to say that you shouldn’t pay attention to what they are saying but my point here is don’t make decisions based on what others have experienced or other people’s fears and failures because that will only do nothing but discourage and distract you from your goals.

I understand there are some people who were lucky enough to achieve their dreams through making decisions based on what people think but to me that sounds too good to be true. These are not the times of Adam and Eve where everything good was available. Good things come to those who are constantly hardworking towards them. Yes failure comes our way sometimes which is our greatest fear but all good things take time with that being said it’s worth it in the end.

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Personally I think yellow looks good on black skin tones. I’ve tried to figure out the reason why A black girl dressed in yellow takes my attention and I finally think I know it now.

Dark skinned women dressed in yellow clothes draw attention mainly because lighter colors compliment dark skin tone. Same thing that goes for make up for dark skinned women. Not all shades look good on us. Same way we are selective when it comes to make up is the same way we should be considerate when buying clothes.

I’ve come to realize that dark clothes mostly like dark blue, green or all black are not very flattering on my skin. Normally when I used to do shopping for my clothes, I didn’t like the idea of trying on clothes before buying. Let’s just say I was probably lazy, or the waiting queue for that is just not my thing. So since I already knew my size I would just buy them as long as I’ve gotten what I want. Well it’s recently I realized that I’ve been doing it the wrong way. I was missing out on one thing which happens to be the color that suits my skin tone.

We conclude this by saying choose the colors that fits and flatter your skin tone

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what is the real definition of beauty?

Each day that goes by we seem to forget what beauty is, people especially women have been brainwashed by social media and magazines to believe that to be beautiful we have to wear make up, labeled clothes, expensive jewelry and etc. Since everyone is doing that, it has now become the new norm. Beauty has been defined in so many different ways especially through pictures that we now watch daily on social media.

It more so seems like one has to have the entire package to not only be accepted but also confirmed as beautiful, such as being in shape. In this case the most targeted group is mostly the ladies and the young adults because this results to feeling pressured to keep up with beauty standards. In my opinion if you ask me. This explains why theres so much self hate and people who feel the need to do surgeries "to shine the light on whatever is worse". People have gone as far as bleaching their skin for alittle more attention.

Beauty is in every thing we do. its happiness loyalty, love, memories, mistakes, growth, satisfaction and so on. Beauty is more than looking sexy, pretty, and dressing a certain way. Our bodies are a shell where our souls live. Imagine a world where we didnt have bodies and you could only see ones soul, would people separate whats beautiful and what's not. at the end of the day beauty fades away by age, people get poor and can't afford a lavish lifestyle. Some of us our body genetics wont allow us to maintain the appealing shape. Furthermore we will all die one day and this definition of beauty we have in our minds will be gone. what is the beauty in you, you intend to live behind?

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