마르코 님의 여행에 대한 글을 읽어 보고 적는 글 입니다.

우리는 삶이란 여행을 하고 있다 라는 말씀 정말 공감합니다.

하지만 제가 저 그리고 주변사람들의 지금까지 삶의 여행을 해보고 나서 아쉬운 점이 있어서 그리고 그 아쉬운 점을 고치는 방법을 알고 싶어서 이렇게 적습니다.

이 글을 읽으시는 분들 중에서 어떠한 방법이든지 간에 생각나는 것이 있다면 저와 함께 쉐어 해주시길 바랍니다.

저를 포함하여 요즘 사람들의 여행의 문제점은 (여기서 여행은 꼭 삶 뿐이 아닌 보통 여행도 포함됩니다.) 여행의 목적을 정해두지 않는 것 같습니다.

여기서 제가 말하는 목적이란 정해진 대로만 가야한다는 것 처럼 자유를 해치기 위한 목적이 아닙니다.

마치 마르코님의 글에서 x + y =10 의 예에서 10에 해당되는 것입니다.

만약 10이 없다면 x,y는 환상일 가능성이 있습니다.

정말 최악의 경우에는 이런 환상이 우리들을 속이곤 합니다.

마치 도피를 예쁘게 포장하여 여행으로 만드는 것처럼요.

하지만 주위를 둘러보면 아무런 목적이 없이 자신은 자유를 만끽하며 자유롭게 여행을 하고 싶다 또는 하고 있다라는 사람들이 너무 많습니다.

마치 도피를 예쁘게 포장하여 여행처럼 보이게 만들고 그 위에 자유의 리본을 단 선물처럼.

그리고 그 선물을 사람들은 자신이라 생각하고 살고 있죠.

하지만 그 선물을 포장한 사람이 자기 자신이기에 그 선물을 열어 안의 깊은 곳을 보지 않으려 하고 선물 밖의 여행이라는 포장지와 자유라는 리본을 보며 자랑스러워 하고요.

저 자신 조차도 이러한 문제가 있음에도 어떻게 해결해야 할지 잘 모르지만,

무엇이든 해결을 하기 위해선 문제의 원인을 먼저 알아야 한다고 생각하기에 제가 생각하는 한가지 원인을 적습니다.

현세대의 인간은 자유라는 덫에 걸려 있습니다.

그리고 제가 자유라는 덫에 걸려 있다면 제가 가지고 있는 자유는 자유가 아닐 것 입니다.

자세히 설명하자면, 현시대의 인간이 누리고 있는 자유가 가지고 있는 역사는 사실 100년도 채 안되었습니다.

제가 여기에서 이야기하고자 하는 자유는 인간이 초기에 가지고 있었지만 농경사회로 바뀌면서 잃었던 자유를 의미합니다.

사실 이런 짦은 역사를 가진 자유조차도 사실 누릴 수 있는 사람은 전세계 10% 정도도 안될 것 입니다.

아쉽게도 인간들은 자신이 무언가를 처음 가진 것을 사용할 때는 거의 항상 좋지 않은 방향으로 사용한 후, 부정적인 결과를 받아들인 후에 긍정적으로 사용하려고 노력한다는 것입니다.

원자력이 좋은 예가 될 수 있겠네요. (현재로서는 원자력이 없다면 지금 저희가 사용하는 에너지를 감당하며 지구도 지킬 수 있는 방법이 없습니다.)

현세대의 사람들은 자신들이 소유한 자유를 어떻게 사용해야 하는지 모른다고 생각합니다.

사용하는 방법도 모른 채 자신의 것이라며 무차별로 사용하는 것이죠.

마치 원자력을 맨 처음 얻었을 때 각 나라가 원자폭탄을 경쟁하듯이 만들었 듯이요.

그리고 지금은 그 폭탄들을 없애기 위하여 노력만 하고 있지요. 30년 동안 만든 폭탄을 없애는데 500년 이상 소요될 수도 있습니다.

왜냐면 이건 마치 한국 사람들에게 내일 부터는 식사할 때 젓가락을 써서는 안되고 포크만 써야한다고 해도 다들 젓가락을 사용할 것이니까요.

저희가 지금 가지고 있는 "자유" 라는 것도 마찬가지라 생각합니다.

저희는 지금 자유를 옳게 사용하고 있다고 생각하고 있지만 사실은 그 자유로 인해서 저희가 덫에 걸려 있으며 그 덫 안에서 나오지 못하면 죽는 것 일수도 있습니다.

저는 저희가 지금 누리고 있는 자유를 정말로 진지하게 생각해 봐야 한다고 생각합니다.

어쩌면 이건 진정한 자유를 얻기 위함 일수도 있다고 생각합니다.

만약 목적이 없는 여행은 자유스러운 여행이 아닌 그냥 도피일 뿐 일수도 있으며

이 도피가 가능할 수 있게 만드는 건 우리가 가지고 있는 자유를 잘못 사용해서라면

가까운 미래에 우리는 서로 깨달아 이 문제를 해결하고 싶을 때 우리는 그 해결책을 찾기 위해서 지난 100년간 실수의 해결책을 500뒤에나 찾을 수도 있습니다.

원자폭탄 처럼요...

혹시 제가 이야기하고 자 하는 목적의 의미를 잘못 생각할지도 몰라 다시 한번 말씀드리지만

제가 이 글에서 이야기하고자 하는 목적이란 정해진 대로만 가야한다는 것 처럼 또는 정답 같은 것이 아닙니다.

끝으로 인간과 그들이 소유한 자유에 관한 짧은 글로 마무리 하겠습니다.

자유

얼마나 많은 지불해야 했던가,또 지불해야 하는가

이것을 얻기 위하여..

나는 소원하네 이것이 눈에 보였으면 하곤

눈에 보이는 것을 얻을 때는 돈으로 지불하면 되지만

눈에 보이지 않는 것을 얻고자 할 때는 그에 합당한 것을 지불해야 한다네

그래서 수많은 이들이 이것을 위하여 목숨 까지도 지불했네.

감사합니다. 저의 목숨 처럼 중요하게 사용하겠습니다.

라고 다짐하며 사용해야 하는 이것을...

왜 우리는 항상

다시 죽이려고만 하는 걸까…

죄송합니다.

제가 자유가 생길 때마다 이것을 어쩌지 못해 뛰쳐나가기만 했습니다.

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If you want to solve when you have a problem, first you must know what the problem is.

In many cases, we make the mistake of trying to find solutions without properly identifying what the problems are with us. But you can not find an answer without a question

I want write one of simple common thing in general of "Problem".

In general, there is one common thing in our most of problems we could get our life.

The belief that you can overcome the problem exists in those who have problems.

There is, of course, the doubt that it may not win.

However, most people believe that they can win because of their self-centered thinking.

However, since reality has the same self-centered thinking as humans, human beings are created by the gap between their self-centered thinking in reality and their own self-centered thinking.

Most of people do not think the problem is that humans can not fly like birds.

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Believe everything in the world.
But the source of that faith should not came from you.

Let's hope all the time, but do not desire luck, and do not let your wishes pass on to others.

Always have confidence.
But the confidence must be born only from the belief in yourself.
You have to do everything confidently, But I must never try to confuse between conceit and confidence.

You can take on the feelings that the world gives you, but you should not even drink the feelings your ego is trying to give you.

If you always train yourself with the difficulty to overcome you, your world will see you without distraction and kneel to serve you

If you treat yourself easily, you will eventually have to serve time by kneeling in front of the world.

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There are always good parents around us.

I am writing now do not mean that my parents are bad now.

I just hope it helps to be a better parents than now.


A year ago I bought a trampoline for my children.

And while I was playing on the trampoline with the kids, this idea came to my mind.

How many days kids will use this trampoline?

1 month? Two months?

Frankly, I did not expect to use it for more than two months.

And I could not tolerate this.

Because it took 6 hours to assemble it apart from the price of Tremble!

However, just two months later, the backyard space is a waste of waste.

So I used little tricky idea to them.

I showed them the videos of those who are good at trampoline through youtube.

As a result, the children are still playing on the trembling for two or three days a week.


Why did this result come out?

One thing I am certain is that my children are never special.


Let's take an example of another situation.

If you tell your kids to buy a trampoline and play, during the first few days the children will play without knowing if it's time.

But, like everything else, it's getting less fun and I will not play in the trampoline later.

Because the only thing kids do on it is to just run.

And parents will complain to the children.

He said he did not use the gift even though he gave a lot of effort to the children.


But you can change a lot with just one thing to show.

You do not have to show yourself, you can give your children a new dream with just one video showing.


Let's take another example.

This is a slightly older child, aged 10 to 12 years old.

If they give them a chess game, they will not be able to play a game for just one day.

But if you tell them the rules of chess, they may enjoy it for a lifetime.


All parents always try to be better parents.

My opinion is not an effort to make a better future.

Let's be a parent who thinks a little more with anxious time and passion.

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God gives the key to everyone when human is born.

The key is the key to the safe in them.

There is life in the safe.

If you use the key to carry the life in the safe

He does not need the key or the safe now.


But why are we...

Why do you keep looking for the key you have in your life?

If the safe is in you, of course the key will be with you.

If I find it, but I can not find it,

God gives them the same key again.

They look for the key until another life is over.

Please leave comments what key is.

I think that I found it but I always believe that there is better things every time.

And I want to hear better answer than mine.

Of course, I will let you know my answer to anyone leave comment.

Thank you.

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We are waking up to 800 minutes a day.

And during these 800 minutes, we do things that we do or want to do for what we want.

Now let me ask myself for 10 seconds without thinking.

When was the last time you thought about concentrating on a single object for more than a minute without disturbing other thoughts?

The meaning of concentration here is to observe or think of just one thing (physical or mental) without doing anything else.

Perhaps humans have had the ability to concentrate in this way as they were born.

We generally know that babies from one to five years old can not be concentrated in one place. But perhaps babies may be concentrating on the subject even though they are not focused on the subject.

For example, children who have learned the word "what" at the beginning often ask what it is every time they see everything.

In this case, people try to explain to their children what the subject is, but in fact the children do not focus on the subject they asked what it is, but instead of trying to find the meaning of the word "what is it" Because it is still focused on. (Of course, after knowing the meaning of the word a few days later, I focus on the questioning subject.)

Everyone knows that babies from 1 to 5 years old are not yet mature compared to adults. What is surprising, however, is that their ability to learn something is far superior to that of adults. (Especially in the language), if children have an ability to learn something better than an adult, even though they have a mature brain rather than an adult, then one of the factors that makes up this difference is the intensity It would be a difference.

However, as the age increases and the number of people who can concentrate or concentrate increases, they forget the importance of concentration, or too much of the attention disturbs concentration.

One of the ideas I have here is why people have forgotten their ability to concentrate from the beginning.

If we have forgotten it for evolutionary reasons, we may eventually and naturally not need to concentrate as we grow older.

But I do not think that the ability to concentrate on exploring and learning the most important thing is forgotten from evolutionary reasons.

Even those who have forgotten their ability to concentrate so much now can easily see that they focus on something that is essential for their own life, or who is usually focused or absent when they want to own what they really want.

Why, then, do humans still have the ability to concentrate, yet can not easily concentrate as adults?

I have found one reason in the human history of the last 200 years.

From the birth of human beings to the past two hundred years ago, human beings have had to be dominated by the environment in the past, to briefly express the difference between human life and human life since then. However, It is now that humans have reached the stage of dominating the environment.

A simple example is that people in the past have eaten the last apples of the year and can eat them again until at least 10 months before they can eat them again in the next 10 months. But now humans are aware that if they want to eat apples for one year, they will be eaten if they pay the price as much as the apples. (The important thing here is that it is important that humans have what they are, not about the magnitude of the value, but the fact that it would have been possible in the past.)

In the end, the human beings in the past were aware that their own abilities, except gods, were higher than anything else in this world, but that they could not eat apples.

These phenomena like apologies have spread to almost all the objects that humans can own, and since humans have escaped the dominance of the environment, rather than have dominated the environment, it is not whether humans themselves can own it. If you are aware of something, the reality is that, although it is wrong with your own perception, it usually happens because humans believe and execute their own perceptions).

If you want to own any object, you may be required to observe the object first.

And one of the important skills for observation is the concentration we are talking about here.

As a result, since 200 years, humans have grown exponentially in possibilities of possessing possibilities, and this has stimulated the desire of ownership, one of the basic desires of humans, to start to kill the ability of humans to concentrate on one thing will be.

Here's an example that can be realistically more sympathetic.

When I was 15 years old, I first encountered a video game machine.

At that time, the price of one game was about $ 80, so it was hard for me to collect all the pocket money that I have been receiving for 6 months or more to buy a game.

Of course, there were shops that changed the game with little money at the time, but the price to change was also staggering.

Then, we become 18 years old. The technology to illegally duplicate games on CD has been developed.

How great this technology was, it cost less than $ 1 to buy a game with a price of $ 80.

But I have never cleared a single game until the end of the technology.

Of course, the fun of the whole game is gone and I have not played games since.

Of course, people in modern society are always chasing time.

But it is one minute a day. One minute out of 1000 minutes you are awake.

Perhaps one minute of your time spent on concentration may later save you more than 100 minutes of butterflies.

Perhaps the human history of the past 200 years may have wanted more of a multi - tasked person who distributes the brain in several places at once rather than the one focused on one.

But the next 100 years of history will favor humans focusing on one.

Computers, or digital devices, have no concept of concentration.

Now that we have all the things we need to care about, we leave it in the hands of the computer, and we should focus our lives on something really necessary.

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One of the things parents want their children to be is to be a strong self-esteem.
I want to ask these parents two questions.

First, if you have your soul, trying to grow your self-esteem strongly will not be a good thing.
Self-esteem means knowing who you are and loving yourself more than anyone else. If each person has a soul, why should he know himself? Moreover, even if you do not try to grow it, each person has to love himself best. Why do you want to educate him?

Second, even if the first question above is wrong, most parents now try to raise their self-esteem strongly to their children, which results in weakening their self-esteem.
To really strengthen your self-esteem, who are you, who are you, and who are I always to your children than to educate you how to act? What kind of person? You have to make sure you have a question. And you must acknowledge the actions of your children. Even in bad behavior. Rather, it is possible that the question of who I am and who I am after the bad behavior is a way to find myself more quickly.

Think of it, who are you, who are you, who are you? So you educate yourself how to behave, and if your children are good at accepting this education and becoming what you want, are they your children or you?

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From the time of birth until death, human beings are trying to escape from the boundaries of their own problems by turning a blind eye to the choice as if it were a problem.

Of course, it is not a problem in the first place because it does not have the common sense to choose the irresistible problems such as life and death. (It seems like the problem can not be a problem without an answer)

As many have said, the sentence that most briefly describes human life will be "a continuation of choice".

I do not want to talk about what choices are going on within the framework of today's problems.

First, before we talk about what choices we should make, let's draw into our minds the events that happen after humans have made choices to solve the problem.

In both cases, the number comes first,

The first is to solve the problem by making a choice.

Now that we have drawn (abstractly) in our minds that we will solve the problem if we choose to make the move, everything is fine in this case and we do not think it will be a problem if we make the choice, In real life, we can never be sure that this choice will solve the problem at this point when we have to choose something.

There is no problem with a choice that has confidence in solving the problem.

If there is a choice that you believe will solve your problem, in fact, you are in a problem other than the one you are thinking about right now. (Because I am worried about other factors that can be solved by other problems). Or you may be in a situation where you have to go into another problem by making that choice and make another choice in the problem.

So, no matter which element you choose at the time of selection, you do not know if the element will solve your problem.

The second is that by selecting the wrong element, the problem becomes bigger, or there are other problems that did not exist before the selection.

Let's think of the case where the problem grows. Of course, there may be a lot of different opinions here than I say, but according to my thinking, the problem is that the size of the problem has been determined from the time it occurs, so that the problem becomes bigger or smaller There is no case.

As a result, this means that there is no quantity in the problem.

If the problem you are experiencing increases or decreases with the passage of time, it is not a change in quantity, but a change in past problems as a consequence of what you have chosen in the past. (You can think of this in a little detail.)

Let's look at some other problems that did not exist before the selection.

If you have experienced this situation, think deeply and coolly.

Did other problems arise? Has anything else changed? Was there anything you got ??

What I want to ask is that because of the different problems that have arisen, yo. u have gained something at that time.

Of course you may think you did not gain it now, but this idea is when you are drawing the past on the issue into your head like a movie, and as a result you are choosing the wrong element I can think that there are many more problems. At that point in time you would have got something if you picked the wrong element and other problems arise. (Even if it is self-satisfied ...)

Since when (at least since I was born), most people in this world seem to have been trapped in the bridle of choice.

Perhaps it is a phrase to express that the society in which people live is trapped in the bridle of choice.

Let's ask a simple question.

What do you think is the ultimate purpose of education that you have been receiving since you were born?

I think I am happy.

I can not judge whether my thoughts are right or not, but if I am right, I know at least the ultimate purpose of being educated, so I can not think that my education was wrong.

But what has I been taught that I have been taught to do and what to do to achieve the ultimate goal of happiness?

It is the right choice.

Life is a continuation of choice, and if I make a choice in such consecutive choices, I will get happiness, and if I make a wrong choice, I will get away from the happiness I can get.

And the education I've been taught has taught me how to make a choice.

I have a question here.

The point at which I can see whether or not I have chosen to move is now the present, not the present, which makes the choice.

Of course, at the chosen point, the choice is the result of the future (even if I chose something that did not move, as a result, because I am happy, that is, the happiness that I want to have). However, predictions are just words. Prediction is not the future ahead of you.

Of course, there are many cases where you can get close to the predictions that you anticipate as the forecasts get right.

But in the first place people do not consider it a problem.

If you have a stress flush in your hand, the problem with your choice is not how much or how much you want to win the game, but rather how much you have to bet, so you have to choose what to do as a result. The problem is whether you can bring it.

So, at the time of our choice, what we have chosen through our own predictions, in what we consider to be a problem, will fit with our own predictions in the future, in a word, we can see the manager, the future .

Of course, since we can not see the future, many of our predictions are different from the actual future. (How much did we experience the exact opposite of the prediction?

Even if the predictions appear to be in the real future, or if we have the ability to make such predictions, we would not have been in a situation where we could have that important problem in the first place.

In conclusion, I have been educated to make the right choice so far, but there is no help given to me at the moment when I have to make a choice in a matter of fact. (Of course, I did not overlook past situations that might have been a problem because I had made enough predictable choices because of the training I've received so far.

Well, if there is no guidance on what to choose for me in our problems, but time is running out and, as a result, if something is selected by the time it takes to flow without any choice, what should we do? ?

What I want to focus on in this unit is the importance of direction.

No matter what choice you make, there is no way to know when you choose to make that choice (especially if it is a difficult problem), so what you choose is not the first thing to consider in dealing with the problem. (The first thing to consider when you draw is not to squash it,

There is a picture.

The sun is at the end of the mountain in a wide scenery, and a photograph which directs a spectacular spectacle.

If the problem you are having is figuring out the point of this picture at sunrise or sunset, would you be able to see the picture and solve the problem?

If you have a chance to get a single hint, what would you want?

Is it the direction of the sun?

If it is east, it will be sunrise. If it is west, it will be sunset.

Without a hint, if you choose either sunrise or sunset, this choice should be just as you chose, not as your choice.

What is more important than choosing when you have to make a choice in a problem is why you are making that choice.

And if you can tell the direction, you can make a move like a manager who looks at the future.

No, that's the direction that will guide your choice.

The direction of movement is toward the moving side, the direction toward the bad side is bad

Whatever you choose ...

Select..

One of the greatest powers in the world.

He has the power to make the future.

But choice can not advance to the future.

What if I have the power to move forward, I do not know where to go.

So I just have to be there forever, with that great power.

That is why you are now standing at the crossroads of choice. (If you can advance to the future, you can not take that choice.)

You do not make a choice.

It gives direction to choices that were in one place.

Then the choices will run in the direction you tell them to make the future.

And we will live in that future again.

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