Sometimes it's best to be on your own. Never let guys change who you are. If they're jerks, then you're better off without them. Guys will only try to get one thing but it's best to date someone who you know cares for you. I know from experience. I dated this guy for 4 months and it's time that I will never get back. I broke up with him because he treated me and my friends like we were nothing. You get to choose your own path but try not to choose a wrong one