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Here are some of many many taken pictures from our trips to Jerusalem, Santiago in Spain and Boulogne in France that I want to share with you, check them out! :)

Kisses Wife <3 (Olga)

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Hey lovelies,

So, I was thinking about my life and the society during the 1300s and the society we have today. Being a woman during the middle ages involved having NO rights whatsoever, no property, no power etc. Women had to manipulate and sometimes GET RID OF men in order to obtain some rights in the marriage haha. This is not how it is today, you lucky ducks... I know though, that being a woman in 2016 isn't all rainbows and unicorns anyway. The patriarchy is still a big thing that must be stopped and men are still the dominant gender, especially in certain countries. Men shouldn't be the dominant ones according to me, women should be the ones controlling the men. Men should bow down to women!!

However, back to my story.. I am a widow, and It was seen as something negative to be a widow during the 1300s. However I wouldn't play by those rules and in fact I've been a widow several times (5 times to be exact) haha #noregrets. People see me as a rebel because of this, especially the church since they did not agree with my way of living. But whatever right? Because even if the church has its opinion of me I still go on most of the pilgrimages and behave like a devoted christian (even though I don't participate in the pilgrimages due to religion, but because I want to see the world, shhhh, don't tell the priest! ;)) Like I always say, "experience is the greatest authority". 

So this was basically what was on my mind and it feels really good to have written it all down. Comment down below if you have any questions or something to add! 

xoxo Wife <333 (Ella)

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I don't know why people keep telling me to stop screaming all the time?, I'm not screaming, and if I am screaming it's not my fault. My hearing has been damaged, because i'm deaf in one of my ears. This is because of my fifth husband Jankyn. All started on an evening night, as I tear up some pages out of a stupid book he likes and punch him in the face out of frustration. I don't know why he got so mad it wasn't even a hard punch. My husband Jankyn, though, hits much harder back, and strikes me in the head, which is the reason why i'm deaf in one ear. It is so unfair, his hit was so much harder than mine!!!!, so as clever i am, I tricked him into a trap, by telling him that I wanted to kiss him, haha, little did he know, that he was about to get hit again. How stupid. #menaredumb #youbequiet

Btw listen to my new favourite song by Zara Larsson called "Ain't my fault", she sings about how society blames the victim of rape instead of the rapist by saying things like "It ain't my fault that you're wearing that, or that you look attractive.." I can relate because she mainly says that the women is the victim and the man is the "good guy" well, I think society should change! Its not okay that women are treated like this!!!! #triggered #mad #stopthepatriarchy

xoxo Wife (Mirshad)

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Heey whats up y'all? I just got home from a shopping day with Patricia and guess what i bought?! A red dress similar to the one i posted from my Cologne trip!! OMG I'm too excited to wear it to the next big occasion!! Anyways I promised details of our second trip and here it is, hope you enjoy! <3 

Soooo, I decided that a must visit place was Rome, Italy because it has something that inspires me everyday and helps me to be me.

After our staying in Cologne we bought ourselves a ticket to Rome, Italy. Booooy how excited I was! I couldn't believe that we were actually going to Rome. Not only was I excited over the culture, food, weather and people in this city but I was hyping over finally getting to see The Leaning Tower Of Pisa.

Personally The Leaning Tower Of Pisa is a very important monument to me. It represents strength, resilience and power. Why? Because the tower weighs about 15,000 tons, it stands on a soft ground which makes it tilting to one side, gravity is there to help pulling it down to the ground but despite many years of tilting and gravity dragging it down it is still standing and fighting to stay up. This is what i'd like every single woman to be like, strong, resilient and independent no matter how many forces are trying to bring them down and no matter how hard it is.

Alright enough about the tower, expect from visiting the Pisa tower we decided to take a spa day and just relax. I felt for a facial treatment and massage while Patricia went for a massage and hand and feet treatment. As I lied on the table waiting for my massage a young man in his 20's or 30's entered and I got surprised because I was expecting a woman. But I guess times change and so does the differences in male and female roles in our society.

The weather in Rome was so nice, not 'OMG I'M MELTING' hot and not 'OMG ITS SO COLD LETS GO INSIDE'. It was as they say in Sweden, "lagom". Don't ask why I know this word, I don't even know why I know it hahah. But with the perfect weather we could not miss out on just walking around the streets of Rome, taking pictures, tasting their delicious ice creams and trying out some of their italian food.

Rome, had something different to offer. I recommend you to visit it if you ever get the chance, you won't regret it!! 

Love Wife<3 (Olga)


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Heey guys! How are you feelings this wonderful day? Are you out enjoying the sun? I'm sitting out on the terrace posting some details about our trip to Cologne, German while drinking a glass of wine and just taking it easy. :) Keep reading, there are some juicy details about Cologne down below! #oohtellmemore ;)

Our first stop was in Cologne, Germany. We landed the 1st of September on a Monday morning, checked into our five-stared hotel, ate some breakfast changed clothes and headed out to explore the city. We stayed in Cologne for about four days and during these days we visited:

- The Cologne Cathedral, a very big Catholic cathedral. It was extremely big and the architecture of it was absolutely amazing, still amazed even after three weeks, woooow...

- The Fragrance museum, were we got to see how perfumes were produced and even got to smell some very different fragrances. Quite interesting actually even though it sounds boring.

- A fashion show based on the color red, which I fell in love with because red is MY FAVORITE COLOR and it gave me some inspiration for my future wardrobe!!!

- Sooo many restaurants which had very much to offer, for a minute I felt like I was in heaven. Ooh and we stopped by a greek restaurant because of the smell that was coming from it, and we just had to see what it was that smelled so heavenly, there were so many things on the menu but I decided to try on something called 'Souvlaki' basically meat, vegetables, french fries, tsatziki all rolled in pita bread. I gotta be honest, it was something very simple but sooo good! I could eat it all day everyday!! Patricia ordered grilled meat with pita bread and tsatziki which I don't doubt must have been delicious too (just kidding, i tasted like half of her plate and it was BOOMB GOOD...) 

Here you go guys, this was our trip to Cologne, I have some trips left to share with you so hang in there! 

Kisses Wife <3 (Olga)

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Heey guys! I'm sooo sorry for the bad updating these last couple of weeks. The reason for this is that I've not been at home, Patricia and I spontaneously decided to go on a vacation through Europe and Jerusalem. I don't know why we did it but we both just felt like life was too much, we were both really really stressed and exhausted and REALLY needed some time for ourselves away from our life in here in Bath. We packed our essentials, booked our first ticket and just left without looking back, at least for a while...

But now I'm back home in Bath and I'm ready to get back to blogging. I will be posting the details and pictures of our destinations very soon so stay tuned! #yay!

But right now I just want to go and sleep so the details will have to wait until tomorrow :c

Ooh and what do you think of my new bedroom??? I'm so in love with it! Leave me some of your thoughts down in the comment section :)

Good night lovelies <3 (Olga)


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​Don't you just love this collection of red clothing??! I LOVE it! The model in the middle is me! Did you know I work as a clothes-maker? The items above are all created by me! Its good that I was widowed, or else I wouldn't be able to continue running my business. In my opinion I am very talented, don't you agree?? The model who is applying lipstick is not me though, I am extremely gap-toothed so that would have been seen on the picture if it was me haha. 

Kisses, Wife! (Ella)

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​Hey guys, so this it my outfit of the day. I'm wearing red as usual because I feel it shows the people around me that I'm confident and that they should be careful when messing with me ;) #haterswillsayitsphotoshop (Ella)

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Previously, a reader of this blog sent me a question regarding what to do about their relationship. This is the readers question:

"Hi Ms Wife, I've been in a 4 year long marriage which began at the age of 12. My husband has never given me any rights/power in our relationship. I have never gotten the chance to express my feelings or opinions. After following your blog for the last couple of weeks I have realised that if you can affect your relationship so can I. How do you do it and what should I do?

xoxo Anonymous"

I can totally relate to you since I was also married off at an early age of 12 haha! After reading this comment I thought why should anyone be forced into a relationship like this?! My advice to you, anonymous is to first of all;

1. Set ultimatums. Example: Use your sexual power to get what you want by leaving your man unsatisfied in bed, when he begs for more make a deal that if you satisfy his needs he will have to pay you back with more rights in the marriage. (This worked in almost all of my past marriages)

2. Manipulate him by accusing him of saying mean things to you, or ex. cheating on you/being unfaithful. Hopefully he will become so guilty that he will give in to your wishes and you will get what you want.

3. If the advice above does not work for you, simply make him "disappear" (if you know what I mean...) and let that=

​(Ella)

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​Sooo, as you can see I finally changed the design of my header! I feel like it really matches with my personality. Red is my favourite colour because it represents power, confidence, strength, passion and love. Being a woman with confidence and power makes it obvious that red is the colour for me! #lol

As you can see from reading through the fashion part of this blog a lot of my outfits include at least one red garment. If you haven't, go check it out! :) ;) #fashionluv  

xoxo <33 (Olga, Ella)

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