It's been a while that I find myself being witness of stories that happen to my girl friends, where they are dating or hooking up with boys or whatever gender and who end up breaking their heart, but also their self-love, hopes, confidence and dreams..
Now I thought to write down few words about all this because I am tired. Tired of seeing girls around the globe feeling bad for some fuckboys. Who are them to deserve even one single tear from you ? Did they do something good for you, did they fight for your happiness ? Did they put you as a priority in their life ? I don't think so. And you are still here keep thinking of him, waiting for him and loving him while he's somewhere having fun with friends or other random girls he promised something to, and as soon as he will feel like coming back to you, you will forgive him over and over again, you will defend him in front of your friends and give justifications for his behavior, a behavior that actually doesn't have to be justified. And all this because you think he's essential to your happiness and well being.
Well it's not true at all, happiness is to be found within yourself, you are the only creator of it and the one and only who could make your own dreams come true. Not a guy YOU. And the second you start appreciate yourself for what you are and what you could give to others and be aware and conscious of your worth then you will attract the people who truly love you. It makes me feel sooo much anger when I see girls crying, because the guy they fell for doesn't keep the promises they gave to them. Of course they won't because all what they did was lying to you so they can have what they want ! Sometimes it could be favors, sometimes attention or sometimes something more..
Why would you end up crying for him ? Most of the time this type of guy is selfish and what only matters for him is only himself. So they keep manipulate you, and you keep giving them all your love, all what you could give to a human being without receiving something in return. And this is definitely not a healthy relationship. They got used to receive from you without giving a thing in return, and when they feel like you're slipping away from them they start showing fake affection to you. And that's the final outcome : you're here crying and feeling miserable for someone who doesn't even care about your well being.
You end up crying and feeling betrayed by someone whom you gave everything you could, all this everything that actually deserves to be given to your family, your parents the only ones who really care for your happiness, the ones who love you, and actually the only ones who put you as a priority in their life, who can do whatever is in their power and sacrifice everything to make you happy. These are the ones who deserve your love the most, and the ones you always show the less of it.
Have you ever thought what your father would think if he ever sees you crying for someone who never considered you ? Have you ever thought how miserable you father would feel seeing the girl he puts all his efforts into , to raise her and educate her, giving away her dignity and self-respect for a random boy ?
Keep in mind that guys don't fall for insecure girls who don't love themselves, they just took advantage of these type of girls. The ones they fall for are confident, ambitious and are incredibly sure of who they are and what they want, they fall for someone who can give them security, the same security they have generally received from their mother so they end up looking for a partner who can give them this same security in life, a girl who can support them in whatever matter while she's doing her own shit at the same time. So here it is : how could you support someone goals when you don't event support your own self ? That's the thing.

You can't even imagine of how much a girl is capable of.. We can succeed in whatever matter, we can be girls, women, sister, businesswoman, mother, daughter, aunt and friend and all this at the same time. If we only believe in ourselves a little bit more we could in fact run the world like Beyoncé says, but today we don't unfortunately because most of you decide to be empowered by the opposite sex instead.

Now my English may not be perfect but the message is clear, cheers. ✌🏼

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So today it's raining here in the French North West, thought then to think about sunny days and warm weather by telling you a little bit more about my Moroccan backgrounds. I am originally Moroccan from both of my parents; although my dad has origins from the Moroccan Sahara mostly and my mom from the Berber part of the surroundings of Agadir.

For those of you who know some things about Morocco will immediately think about Marrakesh or Agadir, yet there are a lot of other amazing places to discover in that beautiful country :). Most of my family lives in Rabat which is the capital of Morocco. The city is located on the Western coast of the land which makes the city even more beautiful than what it is already (picture above).

Another thing for what Morocco is known about is fooood, yeah I am proud to say that we have one of the best cuisine in the world, and it's true! I am not saying this because I am Moroccan, but seriously our plates are soo delicious, I shared few pictures of it: the one in the clay plate is called Tajine with prunes and meat (Bel ham wa al barqoq), there is also another one with potatoes chicken and green olives which is my favorite. On the other picture there is Seafood Bastila, and for this one, contents changes according to the family habits. My mom fills it with shrimps, white fish (can be any type of it), and sometimes she adds calamari fish as well. The final result is delicious.

But for how much our cuisine is famous, nothing can beat Moroccan Mint tea, also called Moroccan whiskey. We drink it almost everywhere and whenever, when someone visits us we prepare tea as a sign of hospitality, when we go out with friends or family we order Moroccan tea, after every single meal of the day we prepare Moroccan tea, when we wake up before to go to work, or university we drink Moroccan tea and when we come back home the story is the same. In conclusion, let's just say is our sweet drug, and you will barely meet a Moroccan who is not addicted to it. Btw.. it's already time to prepare it again, so see ya! 😎

(Some pictures are not mine, but it was just to show you a little bit more of the Moroccan food)

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As I said in my presentation I was born and grew up in Italy. Most precisely in the Lombard region around the city of Milan. So from the day I remember during winter holidays my aunt was taking us to Carona. A small village located in the Bergamask mountains where everyone knows everyone and where you can easily spend your days hiking, walking around the lake (like in the picture above) go around picking wild mushrooms or just go to the best restaurant in town and order some "polenta alla Bergamasca". We were afterwards bringing it home to eat it with all the family reunited in front of a chimney.

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