When did others opinions start to matter more than your own?

Why do you care about what they say about you?

Who are you and who do you want to become?

Are you happy with yourself?

WHEN DID OTHER'S OPINIONS START TO MATTER MORE THAN YOUR OWN? With social media being a huge part of our lives today, and especially teenagers/young kids', we are constantly trying to create a certain image. Also before Instagram, people did not want to be considered the 'outsiders' or whatever. We like being liked. Of course some people do not give a flying crap about what other people think about them, but in general most people want acceptance from their surroundings. Other people's opinions can then seem more important if we are not being careful. If we think more about what other people say than how we personally feel, it is easy to get lost. Always listen to your heart and never do anything which is against your beliefs. If you aren't being honest to yourself then you will probably end up way more confused than necessary. It is not easy to 'figure out who you are' in the first place but if you start suppressing your true feelings and what you truly believe, oh believe me, that is going to make it a whole lot harder

​WHY DO YOU CARE ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT YOU? ​I believe we, humans, care about what other people think because it is easier to change your 'mask' than to work with your deepest and most raw feelings. Also because, as I wrote before, we like being liked. A lot of us believe that it is easier to be at the top of society's social hierarchy but the truth is that everyone struggle every once in a while. Some more than others and with different issues. I have for a long time said that I don't care about what other people think about me, but deep down I will always care. A friend of mine told me that when he first met me, he thought I was a bit bitchy but then after getting to know me he thinks I am a nice person. The funny part is that we are actually quite good friends today. When he told me this, I did not know how to react because on one hand he gave me a compliment... But he also implied that he thinks I have a bitchy facade. I am very impulsive, both with what I say and what I do, so I sometimes say things before I think it through. I am also very straight forward and (brutally) honest - not necessarily disadvantages - and that might seem standoffish, bitchy or whatever to some people. When he pointed that out, how that made me think about myself meant more to me than the fact that he thought that. And I think that is quite important! It upset me because I want to show people who I really am, which is an emotional, straight forward, energetic, loving, sentimental, (mostly) confident and strong girl, but I also have a temper, a very expressive side of me, I complain about a lot of things and so forth. The more 'negative aspects' of my personality is something I am working on in order to become a happier person, mostly for my own sake but of course also for my surroundings (especially for my mom, sorry mom I love ya) 

​WHO ARE YOU AND WHO DO YOU WANT TO BECOME? ​I am at the moment low-spirited, not depressed but more than sad, for no obvious reason. I have my ups and downs like everybody else. This time, I believe it is a mixture of being conflicted about school (what I want to become and do after IB, I will hopefully graduate in 2018, but we already have to think about the future now), family stuff and just in general trying to figure out what I am doing with my life. It sounds semi depressing when I tell people how I feel, but I just have to pick myself up and move on. I want to become the person I know I am. The happy girl who loves her friends and family, who loves being creative, who is motivated to do stuff, who is giving nothing less than a hundred and ten percent. I want to wake up satisfied every morning and be grateful for all the things I have and the people in my life. I want to be my true self!

​ARE YOU HAPPY WITH YOURSELF? ​Not completely, but I am working on getting there. It takes time and it is going to be difficult, no doubt, but I will do it for me! I want to be the best possible version of me! 

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I can taste the chemicals on your lips

I know it is toxic

Believe me

But the temptation is irresistible

I feel your lips against mine

It is all that matters

Not the taste

Nor the world outside our bubble

We can worry about our responsibilities another day

But for now

Let us live

Let us be






​I have always love working with a camera. Both in front of and behind. YesterdayI made this video. Some of the content is quite random but life is random and I want to show my life as it is. Not a polished version of it. I am planning to make more videos in the future and more often and hopefully  I can become better at editing, shooting and also get in front of the camera. I have a few projects in mind. So stay tuned for that.  

The song in the video is 'Kendall' by DYSN which is one of my current favorites. I love the groovy vibe and the person who is singing in the chorus' voice, not sure whether it is a female or male singer, but I also think that it gives the song something extra 

Anyways, enjoy 



These pictures were taken in my bathtub

My hair is greasy

My skin has imperfections

The images are not photoshopped

It is just me taking photos


It is RAW




The items above are some I would love to have in my wardrobe, but lets be honest designer clothes is really expensive & I am poor student who can only dream of Stella McCartney, Burberry, Chloé & Gucci. But hey, motivation to work harder!

NOTE! I would like to apologize for my poor punctuation. So, sorry:)



I have always been an honest person, probably because I tend to speak before I think about what I am going to say. I speak from my heart so to say. The things I say may therefore sound way more harsh than intended & people might get hurt. That is of course not in my intention.
I would personally rather have someone being completely straight up with me & honest, than people tip-toeing around certain things the want to be vocal about but are holding back because I might get hurt. I am not going to deny that the truth might hurt sometimes, but what hurts even more is finding out that people have been saying one thing & feeling something else. Honestly cut the crap & speak your mind! We should never be afraid to speak our mind - but of course remember that you get what you give & you should never be disrespectful. Honesty is not meant to hurt people but make people more self aware in order to grow.

Some say that relationships should be based on trust, I agree with that to some extend, but what about honesty? We cannot trust one another if we are not being honest. Honest to the other person & ourself. Honest answers leave less question marks & less question marks equals more trust. So honestly, where would we be without honesty? If politicians were more open & honest about their agendas, would those who do not have faith in the system have more trust in it? I would personally be more interested in politics if politicians were more honest & spoke the truth. Politicians do know how to sugarcoat the truth, but who is that going to benefit? I would love to have a government where 'a spade is a spade' because that is how it is in real life. It sometimes feels like politicians never leave Christiansborg - the parliamentary building in Denmark - & they make decisions based on what information they receive through different media platforms. How can we elect politicians to run our country & make pretty important decisions, if we are unsure whether they are speaking the truth or not. I may not know a lot about politics, but I do know that there are three sides of a story & only one of them is the truth. Politicians are therefore either speaking the complete truth, adding a little twist in order to benefit themselves & just straight up lying.



Hi there - I thought it would be a great idea to answer some random questions to get started

HAVE I BLOGGED BEFORE? Yes I actually have, I had a blog when I was 12 but no idea of what I was doing - not that I have a better understanding of what I am doing with my life now than back then

HOW OLD AM I? I am 17 years old

WHAT IS MY FAVORITE/MOST USED WORD? I do not have a favorite word, but whenever I am asked to say a random word without thinking too much about it, I always say 'Potato'

SOMETHING NOT A LOT OF PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT ME? I try to write songs & I have attempted to since I was a little girl

DESCRIBE MY PERFECT DAY Cup of coffee or tea in the morning along with some lovely fresh berries from my neighbor's garden, followed by a long walk with a friend where we talk about everything and nothing, just in general a day with no stress & plenty of time to do whatever I want

​FAVORITE COUNTRY? ​Uhh, that is a tough question. I love Spain and especially Barcelona, since that is where my 'Spanish family' live - they are our family friends, but we consider each other family. We also have friends in the US, so the US will always have a special place in my heart. New Zealand as well, since my Godparents live there

​FAVORITE BOOKS I HAVE EVER READ? ​The Catcher in the Rye is one of my top 5 favorite books. Also the book I am currently reading, All the Light We Can Not See, & some of the poems from Andrew McMillan's ´Physical´ 

​FAVORITE BRANDS? ​Stella McCartney, even though I do not own any of her beautiful creations, IRO - one of my ultimate favorite brands, Zadig et Voltaire - French brand once again, Designers Remix & Margit Brandt -though I needed to include some of the many great Danish brands

​IF I COULD CHANGE ONE THING IN THE WORLD WHAT WOULD THAT BE? ​I would make sure that suffering - in terms of hunger, war, abuse, suppression, self hatred, self harm, bulling etc. - was eliminated until the end of this world. I basically want everyone to live in peace and harmony, with the same rights and possibilities in life

​WHAT GETS ME HEATED? ​Injustice & people being ignorant 

​WHAT DO PEOPLE IN DENMARK TAKE FOR GRANTED? ​I would just like to point out that I am also guilty of this - Our rights, freedom & the fact that our ancestors fought for a better future

​WHAT SHOULD PEOPLE APPRECIATE MORE?  ​Rainy days, the coast line, our cute tiny islands & silence

​WHERE DO I SEE MYSELF IN 5 YEARS? ​In an old house or apartment - don't know where in the world maybe New York, Barcelona, Paris, Malibu, London, Copenhagen or Byron - which I have renovated. Together with someone who loves me as much as I love that person, a couple of shelter dogs, a lot of fresh flowers, a huge closet full of very different items, having a job that I love, creativity in all aspects of my life & over all being happy