No. 1 Do Not Compare😨😲
In 2016, I thought of the reason why I am not successful in some of my plans, coming to my thought, I was comparing myself to others. This has led to a long term unhappiness with myself because I always thought I can never be like them even when I have tried for years to be one of them. I came to a conclusion that everyone is unique and every plans and goals I set, was mine to achieve at my pace and use the opportunities I have to make them happen.
No. 2 Respect👍
Respect is free and less time consuming, I have realised that having self-respect, encourages self-worth of yourself and in others eyes. Thus also giving respect, comes a long way and brings incredible feeling of respecting another persons worth.
No. 3 You cannot please everyone 😒
Simply you cannot!
No. 4 Positive Thinking😁
In 2016, I have learnt to think positively, even with the worse situation being positive can take your mind of the negative part that can lead to more
No. 5 Not everyone wish you the Best😏
Everyone will give you a big smile when you do well but most of times, some people may not be happy with your success, in 2016, I have come to a realisation that "The enemy you know is better than the best friend you don't know".
No. 6 Love with all your Heart😍i
To love and to be loved is the best feeling and healer of heart. Loves comes a long way to me and I always love greater.
No. 7 Family and Friendship👯👫
Family is very important in our lives and they are the reason why we are mostly happy because they are the people who actually love us truly and will be always there. However not everyone in family will be close to us and I have realise even blood family can be enemy we don't know.
What I learnt about friendship is -------- Quality over Quantity, I will be so happy to have that 1 dear friend who is loyal to me than 1000 friends who are our own enemy among them.
No. 8 Stop worrying about the future💡
I am one of many people that worry about my future, maybe my past was not the best but for my future I have dreams however I have always been worrying. 2016, I learn't to not worry over things that I do not know the future of and that I do not need to worry about them yet. Less worrying the more excited I have been, I have planned the most important things in my life but still I will never be sure if some of them might happen because future is a mystery.
No.9 Life is too short to be unhappy😞
I will be honest, I have seen myself and everyone being sad and unhappy with small things that we could easily turn them around to positive within time but we all suffer from being unhappy at different times. During my teen years, I have been making myself the most unhappy girl that can be among all the girls I bump onto, I always compared myself to others, i put myself down and I never had confidence and faith with myself and this caused my unhappiness through the years, talking about other factors that also contributed to my unhappiness. However I have grown to stop being unhappy over ridiculous things that I could turn them to positive, less thoughts and comparison to other the more happier I became, of course no human can go without being unhappy sometimes, but I leave that to God and factors that are uncontrollable cause to my unhappiness.
No. 10 Forever is always exciting🕛
Thinking of forever has been my favourite topic in my head, I always want to dream about forever even though, there are factors clearly might not allow the forever!