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Good morning from a side of my world. Its the season once again, the season that everybody shows love to family and friends. This is just a smiple and fast post just to share with you guys my futre blog plans. 

I have been thinking of how to be taking this blog and how to handel it. Im thinking from next year, I'm going to open a youtube channel, where I will be able to share what I can, this is just something I want to doing in my free time. Its not a big thing but just a small one. I saying this you that you all be know in good time and show some love. 

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Good morning, new week new things. Today I have decied to challenge myself to share yet another life struggle that I go through. My everyday life has changed. From being alone, to being married, from being married to have a kid and now we have to them.

I think I have never shared how it was when I first became a mother. Becoming a mom for the first time was both scary and exciting. the fact that there are a lot of unknowns, and while we want to do our best for our kids, it’s just not easy to know exactly what to do, even if we prepare as much as possible. The joy of just knowing that you will have your own child is the best feeling ever.

It was the best feeling and unchanging moment of my life. Holding that little baby that i hard in my womb for 9 months. Before he was born I really wanted he to be born. To meet him, to see how he looked, 9 months felt like forever. I never ever thought in my life that I could ever love someone more than I loved myself. Before having a child, I was always thinking about myself, treating myself too well and making sure I had to get anything I was wanted.

But the moment my child came everything changed, the love I had for myself wasnt there anymore. I loved my son more than I loved myself. It wasnt just because he was a baby, but its that fact that he was my my baby. Having him as my child was the perfect gift for me. But little did I know that this love will change everything.

I have a life and I intend to live it for myself, but it hard when you have someone else you have to live for. Being a mother is amazing and life chaning. The first 3 days after his birth we had to spend it in the hospital, I never slept I was just looking at him making sure everything was still fine with him. I was holding him and never wanted to let go. When I gold home I was tired and really wanted to sleep but that was just the start of the sleepless nights.

For me the hards part of being a mom was the fact that I had to alot of things that I was maybe not so ready to change. My thought was ofcause that when a baby wakes up at night, they just drink the milk and fall back asleep. ittle did I know, Sometimes I could stay up for 3+ hours at the middle of the night, he cant sleep, he doesnt want to sleep by himself othet than in the hands.

I am very proud that I over came all this, I did struggle alot and I also did miss to do alot of things while he was still a bay which I wished I did. But I am happy with how how far we have to and what I have being doing. I am still learning alot of new things as he is also growing up.


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Good morning people, it's a very wonderful cold morning over here, freezing like hell... Lord I miss summer. Hope you all are enjoying the coldness where ever you are.

Today I want to share a very tounching story with you guys, yes it's very touching to me. So every morning I have to take my son to the daycare we and have to take a bus to get there. So every morning we do go by bus, which is a bit of a problem, because I have another child in the stroller and when getting into the bus somebody has to help me carry the other side of the stroller whille I carry the othet side. We have being doing this for about 3 months now and trust me its stressing but one got to do what they have to do.

Every day in the bus I do meet different people some are new faces and some arent. There is one woman I mostly meet, I see her most of the time in the bus, she smiles all the time, she seem very kind. So me being a very smiling and kind person I always smile back at her. She has never seen my daughters face because everytime we get into the bus shes always in the stroller, so I dont get her out.

Last time as I was coming back home from town I meet her in the bus, she smiled like always, and this time my daughter started crying and I took her out of the stroller, because I thought she was tired of lying down, it could be better for her to sitt on my laps for a bit. So just before we could go out of the bus, this woman stopped me and asked me if I would want to put my daughter for adoption, that my daughter is sweet and beautiful. I didnt have words for her, I couldnt answer her, in my head I thought I was sleeping whille looking at her. I told her, thats not my portion, I carried both my children for 9 months, I have had some sleepless nights, stressed myself up and down for their well being, and you think I will just give away my child just like that? No never, My children are my pride and my joy, if I suffer they will suffer with me. Nothing in this world will make me give up any of my children, even the ones that arent yet born. So when I left the bus because she sow that I was in shock, she didnt say anything more then I said to myself, I will never look away from my stroller for second, cause I might find my child kidnaped.

This really got into to me, it was and still hard to get it into my head. I told myself, I cant even carry a baby for my sister and now talking about giving my baby for money? No never. I know there are some people out there who really wants children and cant have any, not because they dont want to but just that they cant. And there are also people will can carry prengancy for 9 months and dont want the child and they give them for adoption, which is fine for them. But for me I am not in that part of the world and will never be. My children are mine.

Do you think I was rude to her?

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It's a new week and a wonderful one at that. Rememeber dont let anyone or anything bring you down. Being positive and stay positive. Choose to being an inspiration to others.

I'm back again with something new that I want to share with most of you. Today I choose to share how important is the body( my body) I feel like in today's world if you dont have a flat stomach then you are losing alot of fashionable things. This is based on what I think. you may not agree with because we see things in different ways. But I think most woman that haven birth are fighting to lose the extra kgs they got during pregancy and after birth, I'm sure most of you would agree with me.

Like I have written maybe 1000 times already I am a mother and a proud one at that :D. There is this saying that I love saying, being a mother is a blessing but it's also a 100 percent unpaid job. I love being a mother and I enjoy everything about it, even though sometimes I'm tired but I know that there is joy in being a mother.

Giving birth comes with a lot of changes and one of them is the body change, yes body change. I am among the people that changes body after child birth, I gain some exra kgs, some of my body parts get bigger than I ask for. 😂 And to make the matters worse the stomach is the most part of the body that becames big, I dont even understand it myself. Being one of the people that arent good in traning and eating very healthy it makes it even worse than normal. After my first child birth, I tired all I could to train up and lose some unwanted fats, nothing seemed to work out I ended up giving it up, every time I looked myself in the mirrow I wanted that body, that slim body that most woman are rocking. But but you know how it always ended 🙈

I dont hate myself nor my body I just want it to be a bit slim... (maybe in my dreams) :D I love my body and I rock it the way I want. despite the fast that the stomach is so so stubborn. Body changes are just a prof of joy and happiness , the joy that nobody can explain at all.

During my second pregancy I did gain some kg and I also lost alot after birth, which I am still working on. I arent going to stop till something happens, I mean something good happens, you know what I am saying? I have so much respect to every mother out there keep doing a great job that ya all are doing.


Enjoy your week.

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Hello readers aswell as bloggers, so today I'm here to share something about my self. I have kind of taken a long break from blogging because my lovely laptop is dead. 😔 I have been getting some questions from my lovely readers that ♥️ that they could love to know more about me. So today I will let you know who I am.

Well to start with, my name is Rita Zumbo, Zambian/Congolese young woman. I'm 26 years young, living a quite life in a small town called Horsens in Danmark. I am a wife to 1 husband, a daughter to my mother and father, a sister to my brothets and sisters, a friend to many and a mother. I'm also a student studying marking management but taking a break from the stressful life of books. (Kidding) I am a mother of 2 most beautiful childre whom I love with everything I have. I have a prince who is 2 years 4 months and a princess who will soon be 4 months in some weeks.
I am a lover and a follower of Christ and no I am not ashamed to say it out loud. I love everything about him and I live for him, I'm also a lover of food, I love looking, I do enjoying cooking and baking, even tho Im not good at cooking. I also love fashion and beautya, I try to do my own things, to come up with something and not what everyone else is doing. Very person got some different test and swag in there own blood so I believe in learning news and also coming up with new ideas.
I started blogging when I was about 18/19 I have had bloggs which I later deleted, reopened and deleted again, but Im trying to keep this one going for as long as I can. What am I mostly going to blogg about? Well there have been so much changes in my life and that is why I'm also going to do some changes. I'm not going to be doing a VERY person blogg, but Im mostly going to be blogging about parenting, beauti, interior (some DIYs) and maybe some cooking. That is what I have been planing to do.
This was just some short info about me. You want to know more about me? Comment or send me a question to my email: ritazumbo@hotmail.no

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Welcome back to my blog, this is just a quick  welcome post, just to let everybody around here and out there that I am back. 

This time Will try to blog as much as possible. Follow me also on IG: rita_1705 and on SP: trustlulu.

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Good morning friends and blog family... Its a wonderful friend, with a good sun :).

Its been rough week for me, waking up so early to take Emmanuel to day care and go for my course. I what can I say, I pulled it off :)

Now it´s weekend and relaxing is my theme this weekend before real struggle starts next week. I was asked to do a post of the birthday´s theme and what it about. Thank you for the request. Here is how and what it was.

Emmanue´s birthday has passed and yes I am grateful for how it was... The THEME of the birthday was mickey mouse. I love Mickey for the colors that he has and also the ears... I made the choice was happy. I got everything I want for the party on line, will leave the link in the end. The cake itself was Mickey too :).

I love Mickey mouse and Winnie the pooh and maybe just maybe if I ever plan to hold any birthday for a child again it´s going to be Winnie the pooh.



Are you planing to hold a child´s birthday party with a good THEME? You can buy a lot of birthday theme decorations, if you live in Norway you can get these on multitrend.no it´s free shipping and trust me you will be happy.

If you live in Danmark you can get same thing and more others, links down

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http://www.multitrend.no/mikke-mus/cat-c/c100214

Good deals guys


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I am still on the same topic and today and just want to take time and appreciate my son. I know he does not understand anything yet but I believe one day he will. This was to be posted on your birthday buT never got time to do so.

You turned 1 year old on the 16th of july, I was happy, I was filed with joy that cant be described. I can´t say how much I am proud of myself that I have managed to take care of you for a year. You where once a baby, a very small baby and you lived as a baby and I loved you as a baby, I treated you as a baby, did what a baby should do, and now you are a boy, you are very good and handsome boy, whom I love with all my heart and everything I am. You have to live as a boy, act like a boy that you are. Speak like a boy and do everything like a boy and grow up to be a man.

I want you to take a step at a time and learn from them so you can make something big, great and good out of them. You are a blessing and an amazing son to me. As a mother and a woman I want you to grow up and be a man that fears and loves God. A man that will love his mother, father, siblings and respect them, a man that will have respect for everything and everyone, a man with responsibilities. A man that knows his limits and boundaries.

I want you to grow up knowing the value of a woman and respects them and love them. It takes a good woman to raise a man and teach him to be good one. As your mother its my duty to teach you how to grow and be a good man and as for that I pray for the power of the lord to be upon me and help me to raise you up in such a manner.

"The best parent, in me you may not have seen. But the best son, you have always been. Having you as my son is the only way, I’d want to live my life again to this very day. No matter how old you become, I’ll always hold your hand tenderly… just like how I held it on the day that you were born. You are not just a son to me. You’re my life, my soul, my heart and most of all, the reason for my existence. Happy birthday my lovely my baby "

My beloved son, my one and only, the fact that you are my son will never change maybe that is the one of things that will never change in my life. I am a proud mom to have you as my son. I could never wish for any other than you. You are just a perfect son that any mother would wish for at anytime.

You bring out the joy which i never knew I had, you bring out the happiness from nowhere and you also bring out the anger that I never knew I could get. Yes I do get angry at you not because I do not love you but because you are also a human that makes mistakes over and over again. And as time comes in and out and as you are growing you are also learning from what I am teaching you.

I love you to the moon and back <3



Because you where made in my womb, God knew, he loved you and he God chose me to be your mother. Before I knew anything about you, I used to pray for a handsome sons and beautiful daughters to be my kid. Before you where be I wished to meet you, to see you, to hold you and to kiss you all time. Before I knew you I dreamed about and prayed for you.

A precious you are, a beloved son you, an angel sent from about, you have made me to be called a mother and for that I will forever be grateful. I will love till the end of the world, I will protect you even when there is nothing to harm you, I will guide even when you know the path, I will stay on your side even when you have many around you.No world can describe the joy and love that my heart is filled with.

Forever you will be my son, and forever you will be loved so very much. Always remember that mom loves you for another anything in this world.

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So, I have taken a too long break from blog life, and now I am back.

Last post I posted about the birthday of my son who was by then to turn 1 year. Yes he is 1 year now, and it feels so good, to know I have raised a son, that his no longer counting months and weeks but years.... I am a full proud mother :). The birthday planing went very well and the party itself went very well.

I am writing this in appreciation to the help I got from friends and of cause family. It was amazing to see you all and I am more than happy to be friends with you. 

Thank you for the support and everything that you all deed.   

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God ettermiddag bloggere, håper dere alle har det bra. Så hvis du hadde lest bloggen min fra i går, da kommer du til å forstår godt dette innlegget. Jeg startet med bursdag nedtelling i går. Jeg gleder meg så mye til denne dagen. Min lill prince fyller 1 år.

Jeg har vært opp og ned prøver å få perfekte ting. Jeg har vært i klæs butikk for å få en perfekt out til både jeg og han uten å lykkes :( but I am still on the matter. Jeg har som mye jeg vil så gjern prøve ut også lærer meg nye ting. Så ut av nysgjerrighet ønsker jeg å gjøre POPCAKES og jeg var ute etter hva jeg skal bruke siden jeg aldri bakt dem før. Dette kommer til å være spenned glader meg sykt mye.

I går hadde jeg en mini baking shopping, hvor jeg fikk mange gode ting, og forhåpentligvis vil de være til hjelp. Jeg kjøpte noen ting i butikken og noen ting på internett. så langt er jeg fornøyd med hva jeg har kjøpt selv når jeg ikke har sett dem alle. som de sier så langt så bra


Fant den fløtt grass som jeg ble veldig forelsket i, den skal jeg bruke til smoothies... <3

Disse her skal jeg bruke for alle første gang. Ser veldig bra ut og håper dem smaker også.

Det var 2 glas i bok en med blå og hvit lokk og sugerør og en med rødt og hvit lokk og sugerør. Dem kosta meg kun 20kr jeg er veldig fornøyd men kjøpe

Silikon popcake form, den kom med 20 pop stik, jeg glader meg sykt til å bruke disse ting om ikke så lenge. Jeg kjøpe dem for 15 kr hver, godt tilbudt.

Jeg kommer med resten av innkjøping når alt er på plass. Som sagt alt jeg har posta her har jeg ikke brukt før men glader meg å bruke dem for alle først gang.

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