Breakups are hard.
Broken hearts, broken promises, it's all quite a mess.
But never before did I link a broken relationship to a broken friendship.
What are you supposed to do when the friend who came to you for all the hard times just about shuts you out when it all comes to a head?
I was sure as hell stuck for answers.
Give them space? Push back for their own good?
I thought maybe trying to find a balance of both would do it but now I'm not so sure.
It's not the same. And I don't know if it's just me or if something really did change. Of course I can't ask because if it's all in my head then I end up being a terrible friend who only thinks of themselves. But if it's real, well shouldn't the person who stood by you and only ever tried to look out for you get some answers?
I never seem to know what to do...