So I´m a university student, and today during our lesson we were encourage by our teacher to work in pairs ( I personally like to work by myself -> less "drama"). Anyway, one of my classmate asked to work with me, and of course it would be rude to say no, since this is a very new class with a lot "strangers". So he took the opportunity to sit next to me and together we went through our homework (which was to translate different phrases to the language we are currently learning). When that was done we are supposed to write it on the whiteboard and then correct together with the whole class. While going through the homework he was lliterally on a different page... Everything was wrong and different, which of course made me question my own work. Furthermore, while correcting our homework with our teacher this guy would sometimes raise his hand, read from my notes (without permission) to ask if it was okay with my sentence that was a bit different (another alternative) while pointing a tme....

What? Why? Just why?

Why are you A) reading my notes out loud without permission? B) asking our teacher if that alternative is okay while  pointing  at me, to make sure that if something is wrong it would be my fault and, C) I never asked you to ask the teacher about my work. Fine if you read my sentences out loud, but you don´t have to point at me!! It just felt like as if he wanted people to know that I might be wrong. Luckily I passed them all, with minor faults. But still it's not okay to take others credits. At the sametime this of course might happen...  in junior high school!! We are for goodness sake studding at the UNIVERSITY and you are 26 YEARS OLD!!!! I would be okay if you were maybe 12. But 26?!

Grow up!

What was the point with your actions? To embarrass me? To look down at me? To make sure that I might be wrong? Seriously, very mature of you! Anyway, life is to short to replay this situation. I won´t spend my energy on anger, on him. It was a childish action. 

WellI hope you all at home aren´t in the same situation as I am, and that your classmates are treating you better!

Have a good time!

XOXO, A Girl With Many Thoughts

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So I work at a restaurant/cafe whenever I can (it sort of depends on my schedule) and today at work there were so many sad faces coming trough our door. Regular customers who were definitely feeling blue, and as kind as my mother is she served them some coffee and listened to there problems. She sat with at least to different customers and it turned out that both of them had relationship problems. One of them had just been dumped and the others relationship is hanging on a thin thread. It really does turn your mood down when people who are usually happy suddenly becomes very sad. There energy level are so low and it sort of break once heart tosee them so down. So today I think I would like to share somerelationship advice (not that I am any expert…)


And for you out there who's relationship has just ended, I am truly sorry. But what you need to do is to take a step back and think about what went wrong. The most important thing to do is to try to imagine your relationship from different perspectives to get a better view, and maybe an answer to why it didn't work. You can also try to talk to your partner, but remember that fighting isn't making things better nor easier. You have to patient to listen to your partner and negotiate with each other. And like I usually say to my friends: "if it was meant to be, you'll find a way back to each other sooner or later. If it is not then you need to let go, which is really hard. But at the same time you only have one life to live. There are many other fishes in the sea to catch. Just don't give up".

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Right now I am on my way home from a very late training at the ice rink. As I said before at my latest post, I am an elite synchronize skater. Synchronize skating is inspired by cheerleading. The only differences is that we do all our choreography's, and formations on ice.

Moreover, I have been a figure skater since I was 5 years old, and around 7 I was introduced to synchro which and I instantly feel in love with. 2015-2016 I decided to quit because of the lack of motivation, but during this summer they needed skaters to fill out the team. And by doing so they turned to me and asked me to consider starting again. I got to try out the team and it made me remember the joy I once had. Therefore, I have decided to skate my last year.

Today started of with a morning training that lasted for three hours. We dedicate the time to continue with our free program that we are currently building. Around 3 pm I had a dancing class (LA-style) where we continued the choreography to "can't get enough" by J.Cole, which was lit! After my dance class I went home to eat a quick dinner. Because around 7 pm my friend picked me up to drive us to our second practice by the ice rink. It went really well and we are definitely developing! However, my body is very numb right know from all the intense training that I had today. But at the same time I definitely enjoy every second of it.

Sleep tight!
XOXO
A girl with many thoughts

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Hello and welcome to my anonymous blog!
Here I will be sharing my deepest thoughts on life (to express myself). So let's kick this of with me telling you briefly who I am. I'm a girl around the twenties and is currently living in Sweden. I study at a university and is an elite synchronized skater. Dancing is my life and on my spare time I love to read, snorkel, watch series, listen to music and spend time with the people I love. I really hope you will enjoy all my posts and maybe even feel connected to them. Furthermore, want everyone to be able to feel like they can express themselves and also feel that there not alone.

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