Is it really okay to put someone down and make them feel like dirt. is it okay to call someone nothing or freak or loser. is it okay to push someone so far that they end their life. i think its not okay not one bit.
why do people think bullying is some kind of fun game when to be honest, it can damage a person so deeply. so its not a game you should ever play. words can cut a person so deeply and our actions are not forgotten. everything we do has a deeper meaning and how we treat people is what defines us as person.
bullies think that they can throw words around like lightening and treat others like they are trash when they are not. to be honest i was bully lot back in high school and even at home by my dad, i remember feeling so alone and like i didn't deserve to be happy for even second. i guess i felt like i deserve to be treated like crap. i use to go over in my head remembering every hurtful word everyone said and i was always scary of going to school or going home since i couldn't decide which bully was worse the ones at school or the one at home who was my father.
i guess i felt like everything they said was true and i felt like i was trap in this endless hate for myself because i couldn't stand up to anyone of my bullies or pull myself out of this deep hole i was in. i guess i let myself believe every word and every label they mark me as. even my self-esteem soon disappear and i felt like if i even speak they would just laugh at my scary voice or every words i said. soon it was too much i got really depressed for long time but somehow i snap myself out of whatever hole i was living in and realize i shouldn't have let one person words affect me so much, and i shouldn't let how someone treats me stop me from living my life. there will always be someone trying to bring you down and want to make you feel weak and like your not good enough or smart enough or pretty enough but what you need to realize is they are wrong. your probably wondering why i pick this topic to talk about, went i have few friends who have kids who are being bully and the schools aren't doing anything about it. i mean is that how the school system is now, you let a child or teenager did push around and thrown to the ground and treated like crap and you don't do anything about it. then again i got thrown out of my chair few times in two different classes by different kids back in high school and no one did anything about it, the teachers didn't even care. but that's one thing i think should be change the school system and how the school and teachers handle the whole bully situation since lot of kids die because they got bully way too much and none of the teachers or schools did freaking thing about it. i also think that if you see someone being bully stand up for them or help them by being their friend or tell adult about what happen to them so it doesn't happen again. to be honest i use to be scary to stand up for myself but now i am not, i change and grew up and became stronger and stop caring what others or bullies thought if me because i thought it was time i stand up for myself and stop letting others bring me down. i do think bullying should stop, a kid or child or teenager shouldn't have to change school's to feel safe and to not have to look over their shoulder all the time. bullying is wrong and i hope someday the world changes and people treat each other with better respect and throw names around like they think it makes them smart or good person for making someone other feel like crap about themselves. i just want to say no matter what anyone saids your beautiful and perfect the way you are, don't give people words power by letting it affect you because nothing they say is true and don't end your life because they make you feel low, don't let bullies get to you. everyone who knows you knows how great you are and will tell you not to listen to a bully. don't let anyone have power over you. someday bullies will see how wrong they are for the way they treated you.