Yesterday Ellenie turned 10 months old. I now undertand what people mean when they say that the baby time goes by so fast. I cant believe how fast it goes by. Shes already walking and crawling and saying words.. I Love all her acheivments and i love watching her grow and develop. Its just very frightining how fast it all happens. Literally in the blink of an eye she learns something new.
I just want to say a few words on mom shaming, i think its completely outrageous how mothers of all people.. have the nerve to bash other moms.
some mothers have no support. They may not have a supportive husband, parents, grandparents. The childrens father may not be present. So how can a mother take pictures of other mothers and post them all over instagram and facebook. Judge them on what they are doing.. When they most likely dont know the full story. I see it all the time when a mother post a picture and it may not be the cleanest room in the back.. it may not be the cleanest clothes it may not be the most organic food. The TV might be on in the background. The child may be in the car without a seatbelt. BUT WAIT. you do not know WHY the TV was on. You do NOT know that the car wasnt even driveable. You do NOT know that the mother spent her last dollars on food for her children and didnt even have enough for herself. SO! Before you dare judge another mother. Before you make her feel like shes not good enough when she is doing all she can. THINK about what your bashing and awful comments could do to her. I doubt her children think shes a bad mom.. so why do you have ANY right to say otherwise. If you see a mother you think is struggling...offer to help. Give her advise. BUT dont you dare make her feel worse. i always read the comments and some of the comments are just awful. They always have something to say.
But i doubt that they have been a perfect mom. Everyone makes mistakes. nobody is perfect.. so please be nice to eachother !!