I've been thinking about something that is really really annoying me.. non-trans* people saying stuff like "Yeah I understand how you feel" & "yeah it'll get better, I've also felt bad about myself."
Let me explain, nobody can EVER understand what it's like being transgender, if the person isn't transgender. And It's not really the same thing as being uncomfortable with your hair for example.. Being born in the wrong body is nothing I can even explain in words how it feels, its just awful and horrible. (Bare in mind that I do not mean that being transgender is worse than anything else, I'm just saying that you can't compare it like that.)
"when did you choose to become a boy"
If I had a choice I would NEVER choose to do this, as I said it's awful. It's like hell on earth. So don't even say that I chose to "become" a boy. I was already a boy. I am a boy. I never was a girl, I never will be. Thanks.
Being transgender can be really awful at times. You feel alone, like nobody knows what you're going through, but if you're transgender and reading this I want you to know that you are not alone. There's other people out there who's in the same position in life & don't be afraid to contact me if you feel alone, I'm always here. :)
- Tomorrow I'm going to write about parents, parents who aren't supportive and tips on how to come out and stuff.