Let's imagine a scenario: Something bad happens to you, you fall (in a metaphorical sense). What do you do? Will you stay laid on the dirty ground or will you stand up? Most likely you will get you freakin' butt up! This process is called "moving forward". It is a very natural thing to do. Human beings are not perfect, we fail, we fall, we make mistakes and there is literally nothing, and I really mean NOTHING bad about it as long as you let the past teach you better, reflect your mistakes and learn from them. So what I don't understand is why so many politicians out there seem to love to break this unwritten rule and travel back in time but what I capture least of all that is how in a democratic system we, the people vote for that. But this is a very holistic picture, I want to focus on a little piece of this a bit random and maybe confusing thought: WOMEN'S RIGHTS
Let's have a look at the image above the text. It shows Donald Trump signing the abortion-related order in the Oval Office. This picture went viral within seconds and millions of women and men over the globe started tweeting and complaining why there is only men standing around this desk while this topic has not primarily to do with men. - E.g. Tweet by Chairlane McCray: "Here's President Trump sining an executive order that endangers millions of women around the world. Notice anyone missing?" or Jodie Picoult, "All of the people on this picture seem eminently qualified to determine WOMAN'S health care. NOT." - And I know what the conservatives will claim at this point. It is neither a man's nor a woman's topic but rather a matter of humanity because this unformed bump, a "potential human being" is being killed by abortion. And I don't want to say that this is totally untrue but let me finish my train of thought and please excuse me for generalizing now. The large part of unintentional pregnancies happen because of the lack of sex education this is the case in underprivileged areas and guess what you can find in these areas - poverty or at least bad standards. So guess who is being "killed" by not having the opportunity to aboard if wanted, it is the mother of this child because sadly but true it is far too easy to run away from this complicated and scary situations for the other parent who is not literally physically attached to this "potential human being". This is one of million scenarios of an unintentional prgnancy and probably it fits into "the cliche" but let's take the modern business woman as an example. She is 26 has a boyfriend of two years now and takes the pill regularly. She happens to fall under the 2 percent of the official failure rate and becomes pregnant, still involved in her masters degree and now getting promoted in her dream job and a baby would not fit in now.
My massage is that it does not matter if the decision is based on monetary reasons, psychological reasons, reasons of self fulfillment or maybe because we are living in a modern world where some women decide not to have children because they simply don't want to. At the end of the day it should and has to be the woman's choice to decide wether to carry out a child. It is her body, her future, her life. This is as clear as crystal clear water!