Sooo. . .one of my friends are sitting with an issue..she likes one guy but he has a girlfriend but he likes her back but he does not want to leave her because he is afraid of what would happen, even when he know he and my friend have a better thing going he does not want to break his girlfriends heart..his girlfriend is 20 he is ep and my friend is 30 as we'll he is still stuck trying to figure out what to to about the situation not wanting to hurt someone.. but he gets jealous if she wants another guy.. and its unfair girls or woman need to know what they deserve and stop trying to save someone who does not want to be saved..i think girls should follow there hearts yes..but not on a term to break it..look for something worth the heart to be loved and not be haunted by pain of waiting for something that might never happen..