Lately I've been thinking a lot. Especially about how the humankind is developing. Especially us girls. How we are turning from our natural state and into something else.
Us girls, we are too obsessed with our looks and materialistic things. We are becoming these machines that only wants more and more. We want all these things that don't even benefit us at all. More and more women are getting brainwashed by todays media and society. Young girls decide to go under the knife when they aren't even fully developed yet. Just so they can fit into society's ideal of "perfection". I know that we kind of have pressure on us, But the only reason we have this pressure on us is when we let the media and society control us!
Girls are literally obsessed with their physical appearance. Not in a way that they love their apperance so much that they become obsessed. No, in a way that they HAVE to look good all the time. In a way that they have to spend lots of money just to feel good about themselves. Therefore more girls have to deal with depression and self hatred. Which is very sad, but unfortunately that's the reality.
Trust me, I've been there. I've had these thoughts, I've felt woorthless and not GOOD ENOUGH. I've felt ugly and misreable. However, I do not feel that way anymmore. And I will NEVER ever feel that way again. I wont let myself be brainwashed like that ever again. Of course I have my insecurities, but I don't want to change anything about my appereance anymore. And I do not really see my flaws as something bad. There is a reason why I was born looking like this. Nonetheless, there is a reason why God made you look like the way you do. Just be thankful.
Something that has helped me along my way is to understand that our physical appearance is literally not that important. I'ts basically not that deep. When you have understood this step and really accepted you for you. I think the way you feel about yourself wont be controlled by the society,media or anyone else, You will indeed love yurself inside and out. Of couse, we are humans, we like pretty things, that's just a fact. But judging ourselvs or other based on the way we look is so stupid. Find the right people to surround yourself with, that are with you because of you not because of how you look. Romove yourself from negative people and people that makes you feel bad!
That is what I would have told my younger self and any other person in this crazy world we live in.
But for now, girls are very extreme. Not just the things they do, but how their mids work.
Many girls and women are obsessed with their appereance in a way that affect their lives. Many of us a superficial which makes them become materialistic, some of them can't find happiness in anything other then materialistic things.
Because they are obessed with thier appearance. Therefore to maintain their apperanace they must spend alot of money. This makes them superficial and along with being superficial you become materialistic. . Lots of women are "attracted" to men who has lots money, social status and power. This is all controlled by the mind, the insecure mind.
So to overcome the societies ideals, the obsession of how we look etc. We have to understand ourselvs. We have to love ourselvs, we have to understand the real life problems. We have to basically stop thinking that our physical apperance is who we are. We are more than that! We have to care less. We can't be that superficial girls.