Hi there,

So I've been to Oxford for over a year now. Can you believe it? I came here on the 9th of June last year, only a couple of days after having finished my studies. I never knew then that I would love this place and make it my second home. But as you know I'm a restless person who needs a challenge every now and then. Above all I need to be inspired by new places and keep travelling.

An opportunity has come up and I am going to take it. I am moving to Brighton in August! I'm really excited and scared and everything but this just needs to happen. So yeah, I'm going for it!

//Findus Krantz

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I have a plan for today. I'm going to write and later I'm meeting up with friends in Cowley. That's good enough. There's this story I've been wanting to write for years and a couple of weeks ago I finally started thanks to a writing group I go o every Saturday. And of course thanks to everyone who tell me they want to read some of my works. I don't want anything to throw me off this newfound balance. Oh hey, would you look at that. I'm getting more positive!

Opportunities rather than decisions. I have lots of opportunities. Lots of stories to acquire. Because in the end I'm only here for the stories. There's pain in my bruises and and allthough my heart is full of stiches it keeps on beating and there's always room for more people, no matter where I go. I can't jump to the end to see what happens. I have to feel it.

//Findus Krantz

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I don't even know what to call it anymore. Life crisis, temporary depression, restlessness? How can my heart beat so fast and my head feel so heavy?

I think I need to leave. Pick up the pieces and create a new normal. This feeling is what usually drives me far away. It drove me here once and now I need it to pick me up again or I will lose myself. But I'm scared of course. Scared about life and about making things worse somehow. Be brave, Findus. You're done here and you know it.


//Findus Krantz

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I'm at this amazingly melancholic state where I just don't care anymore. I'm fine with thinking everything is stupid and that there's no reason behind anything. Things just is. I just to hate this shut down shrug kind of side of me, but I honestly don't mind. The more people that bother me the more I withdraw and it feels good. I just hate people right now. Well not exactly good either. I'd like to have myself back again and not this grumpy person who's nesting in bed. I need to get back somehow before this goes too far.

Like parents sometimes say in easy watch tv series "come back again when you're nice". That's what I feel like right now. I need to get past everything that's bothering me and look forward to something. I had something to look forward to but then there came some preconditions that made me doubt things. So now. I need something new.

But first I'm gonna drown my sorrows with friends.

//Findus

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I'm not calling this the worst day of my life. I've had way worse. But it's still pretty bad.

I'm at the same emotional state as before. I want to be left alone. I know a certain someone kind enough to respect my will and for that I thank you. But the people I don't want in my face are the only ones not keeping away from me right now. I removed my facebook because too many people on there piss me off. Not just the usual crap that gives me a sour taste in my mouth like "look at my dog; no seriously look at it" ("dog" can easily be exhanged for "baby", "boyfriend" or "coffee" or whatever). It's the people that write to me.

No I don't want to date you x. No I don't appreciate that y who ruined me a couple of years ago just decided to get back to me and pretend like nothing's happened. No I don't want to give z a "second" chance. No I don't want to update Messenger. I want to remove it. In fact I want to remove everything and everyone.

And to top it off I just found out that saying yes to a new job I was about to announce, means losing my redundancy leave... let's just say I need for some plans I was making. Ugh, now I'm seriously considering saying no just to get the money. I need to be smart about this and come up with a plan. Something that doesn't mean I have to choose between being unemployed or dismissing xK. Eyes on the price, Krantz. Eyes on the price.

//Findus Krantz

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Today I wrote on a piece of fruit. A sublime message on an orange. I wrote "we have everything we need; we just don't agree". I wanted to place it in the kitchen for everyone to see. I wanted to take pictures of it and share them over the internet. The fact that people might think I'd be trolling them or looking for attention didn't bother me. In fact I wanted to write more. The second thought that came to mind was "show me something new". Although I did not follow through on writing this message as it required me to step out of my anxious bubble and go to the store and get a second orange, and maybe even a better pen. And I'm still not sure of the purpose. Maybe I don't have to be either, but people tend to take the answer "I just felt like it" the wrong way. People are strange, always policing one another on what is socially acceptable and not, what is stereotypically perceived as male or female, a joke or something hurtful. Leave people alone, because in the end it's your behavior that is hurtful. And so is mine.

Microaggressions as well as forcing people to adapt. Forcing people to hide away like me on a bad day, because showing people your true self is weak or selfish. But without fear there's no such thing as bravery and maybe the weakest thing to do is to adapt and the strongest thing is acceptance and honesty.

Then I got distracted by something and ate the orange. We have everything we need; we just don't agree.

I'm so full of shit.

//Findus Krantz

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I feel like I need to sleep for a week. There are lots of things I want to do and say but I just cannot be bothered. It's like I'm living in my autopilot bubble where I'm just not functioning or caring. But hey, I know exactly what it is.

My life has been kinda dramatic lately and now I'm at a point where I just want to tell anyone talking to me to f*ck off. Introvert struggles.... But apart from that I'm fine. I had an amazing week in Sweden. A bit of everything and above all I got to see people I've missed and so on. I visited my old University and got that wonderful nostalgic feeling. It seems like only yesterday me and Jenny sat in my apartment and did the final proofreading of our dissertation.

I went to my childhood friend's wedding as one of the bridesmaids which was really intense (as is always expected with weddings), but I had a lot of fun and I'm really happy I went. I still have some sappy wedding songs on my mind. I made a little wedding song playlist whilst me, the bride and the two other bridesmaids where getting ready at the salon. We all looked gorgeous in the end ^^

Since I got home I've basically just been sleeping plus working a long shift at the college (19 hours!). Now I'm off until Saturday night... I am not planning on doing anything productive until then and I'd like to keep it that way.

So yeah, overall I'm happy with things. Now, leave me alone to rest for a bit :)

//Findus Krantz

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Hi,

I know I haven't posted in quite some time. I've been busy and also not so busy. I've worked for about six weeks now and it seems the school will most likely be closing by the end of August which means I will have to figure something out after that. I bascially found out on my first day and I was wondering where the hidden cameras where. I was called in to a big meeting within 2 hours of having arrived for my first day. So that sucked, but I still feel like it's been worth the wait because I really like my job. But of course, this has filled me with doubt in some ways. I've thought about moving after the college closes. Other life changing kind of decisions have followed with this so I've been kinda neurotic lately. But I know what I'm like when things like these happen. It's like all of my insecurities and issues are displayed as glass figurines on a shelf. Anything that makes the shelf wobble could make everything break.

So I'm starting with thinking about what I don't want just to narrow it down. I don't want to go back to Sweden. I don't want to stay in Oxford at this point. I feel like too many things have been unstable and the sollutions have been temporary at best. Not just my work situation. I think I've been underestimating how much things like that bothered me. Having people walking in and out of your life and moving from place to place. I'm sensitive like that. I think it would do me good to get new impressions and go somewhere else. So at the moment I am brainstorming and suggestions like Canada and New Zealand are the most frequent ideas that come to me. Bring me crazy suggestions if you think of anything :)

I'm not sure it makes sence complaining about things being unstable and uncertain and then suggesting to move. But somehow it makes sence to me that letting go is an opportunity to start over fresh and learn from experiences. And then there's this whole restlessness inside me that keeps telling me I need to live a full life and do everything (before I'm too old). Like a lame version of Forrest Gump :)

Thanks for reading.

//Findus Krantz

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Hi everyone,

So on Tuesday I had my first day where I was shown around and did some trainings, as well as on Wednesday when I had a training with the school nurse. Yesterday I did my first shift at the student accommodation. Except for receiving some information that will most likely change the outcome of my work situation later on, it was a good day. I feel well prepared for this position after my time at EF. The only problem for now will be learning new names and faces (in addition to having prosopagnosia) and the routines.

I still have an annoying cough though. The air at work was very dry which made it worse, so I'm gonna stock up on cough cyrups and other home remedies for my shifts this weekend. I'm going to spend the night there both on Saturday and on Sunday. Right now I am waiting for a nurse to call me back and give me some advice on what I can do. As I felt better this morning than I did yesterday evening I decided to call 111 instead of making an appointment at my GP. I just don't want to waste anyone's time without being genuinely concerned. So I spoke to a nurse who managed to rule out serious concerns and I was told a nurse would call me later to give me some advice to help me cope. I am just fed up with this and my ribs hurt from all the coughing. But apart from that I am fine.

It's "snowing" outside. The kind of thin flakes that melt when they hit the ground, thus the quotation marks. The wether keeps changing here. But I don't mind the cold. Sometimes I miss living in Dalarna or north of Sweden in general. Dry, cool air and not much wind. Here the cold is quite the opposite. It's a more wet, humid kind of cold that really gets into your bones. So in that sence I am a bit homesick. Of course there are people back home I miss even more, but I have a lot of fun things to look forward to. Me and Tom are talking about him visiting me over Easter which is in two months and shortly after that I am going to Sweden attend the wedding of a close friend. I'm going to be one of the bridesmades so I'm really excited. I spoke to a friend at work yesterday and she said that you start to feel old once your best friends start getting married, so if she is right I will feel old from the beginning of June. Who knows ^^

//Findus Krantz

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Hi everyone,

Drumroll please... On Friday I got my DBS certificate! YAAAY! I went straight to work with it despite having a fever and now everything is in order and tomorrow I will be added to the rota. Finally! I'm also getting better each day. I can't believe I've been sick for almost two weeks. In the beginning of this week I didn't have a voice. I texted a friend about this and she responded by calling me xD In the beginning of the week I sounded like a sick Fran Drescher and at the end I started sounding more like the child from Home Alone. But now I'm starting to sound like myself again.

Nothing else exciting happened, unfortunately. I played way too much computer games (I earned lots of Steam achievements). I'm not even going to admit how many hours I spent and how many kills I did on Hotline Miami 2, but my housemates know ^^ I also read lots of books so I'm actually ahead of my Goodreads Challenge to read 50 books in 2017. At the moment I am reading Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn.

//Findus Krantz

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