One of my Aunt's ( Lorraine to be exact)  told me i will never be her size when she was in her 30s which was a size 4!!!! Take the negative ppl tell u to ur face and take it as a challenge vs negativity/ tearing down. Turn it into something good!!!! Well as the story goes i put alot of work into it and i am now a size 4 and i can somewhat fit into a size 3!!!! Just something inspirational i wanted to share w yall it may not be the exact situation but it could be similar tho!!! Stay focused, positive, motivated , inspired and determined!!! Thats all the things u need to achieve any goals u set for urself!