If there is anything I've learned it's that things progress when you talk. Also if there is something you wish to happen, you might want to open your mouth.

Speaking with others is always a good thing because and you want to do as much of it as you can because it helps you proceed towards your goals. If you would want to know what would happen if you do something, there is only one way, you just need to do it.

There will always be someone who you like and someone who likes you. Be brave enough to be yourself because it's only your opinion that matters. Even if somebody would say that you are like a retired old man so what. Each and every one of us has the right to be just the way we want.

Being back feels good and my deepest apologies for disappearing. 

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Someone once said that when you dress well you feel better or more confident. I find that to be true. Atleast in my case. There's also a saying that goes something like how you dress is who you are or a reflection of yourself. In my opinion it's true as well.

The main point about what you wear is to wear whatever you want. What you feel like wearing. What you like to wear. What you want to do. Dressing should be independent.

Applying that to everything is the lesson you want to learn. Trust me. I have learned it the hard way. When you do learn it though, everything gets better and you will be happier. I can guarantee you that.

Being yourself and nobody else is important. I believe it's the key of our existence. The ideal you is in yourself, you won't find it anywhere else but inside of yourself.

The concept of ideal is absolutely individual. Everyone has a different view of their ideals. We all have our own idols and goals. We are all different. Of course there can be similarities but nobody is exactly like someone else. So ideally just trust yourself to pursue your dreams.

I'm an optimist. I wish that one day I can do what I love. I know that I will be happy. I just like to enjoy life as it is. Achieving where I want to be when I'm 30 is irrelevant. I don't even know what I want to do in 3 years from now.

The definition of my ideal body for example changes. So does my body. My way of training is different. I train with the main purpose of having fun and enjoying it. Also if I want to eat ice cream I will. Enjoy yourself. That's my advice for you all. This is how I picture ideal me. So that's what I do and I'm happy. 

Seeing someone on social media and saying that you want a body like theirs is natural. But it's not your ideal body. So you don't want to try and be like them.

Just do you.

Next one soon and about an exciting thing called SUMMER!

-Ville

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​I've heard that it's good to stay up to date on what happens in the world and I agree. So that's how I figured out what to write about in this post. Recent events are always good topics to discuss about in my opinion. 

You are probably aware that there was an awful chain of events that occured in Manchester on Monday evening after a concert. The news say that 22 people have died and 20 are in a hospital. The extremist organisation ISIS claimed to be behind the terrorist attack. It was a suicide bombing and the authorities have taken three of the bombers family members in custody atleast his brother and father. His brother is suspected of having connections to ISIS. 

I don't know why it happened but I would guess that they wanted to spread fear and show off their strength. Still that happening caused dozens of people getting hurt and their families and friends. Also many other people were affected of course by the attack in ways of emotions like empathy for example.

I'm not sure what we should do. I don't know how to stop these from happening. I'm not a wise and powerful politician or something else.

I believe that we shouldn't dwell on these things. I courage you all to move on and face up to these difficult times strong and together. If we don't, we will give the people responsible for these horrible things what they want.

This was a really hard post to write and it took me lots of effort and time but now that It's done I feel better. Even though this wasn't that happy, I still did it because I think it's important to talk about these matters and it helps us. 

I feel like when something like this happens it brings up a question "Are we safe?". I'd say that yes it might be relevant or necessary in some situations. Yet I don't see it being too good if we let it become a big deal. 

I wish you well and see you later.

-Ville


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Hey, my name is Ville. I'm this blog's author. I'm 17 years old and I live in Finland. I have played basketball for about 10 years I think.

In this blog I want to share my thoughts and opinions on everyday things, problems and random stuff. I have been thinking of writing about societys problems and my life. I don't know what to do, I haven't done anything like this before, I suck at writing and this is really hard but I will try my best.

This blog's name is deepwatersofmymind and it means that this is the place where I will share what's going through my mind. Believe me I can tell you that my mind is a mess. Sometimes I can barely understand myself. My train of thought and my head is so messy. I literally jump from a subject to another.

I have had some dark times that I had problems and was depressed. I got through them and I think I would like to give you some inside on those times and hopefully help you deal with whatever difficulties you may have.

I like to watch lots of shows and movies and use many quotes and phrases from them. I'm a cliché like that but I like doing it. I think it's funny. Many adults think that it's bad to watch a lot of tv. They say that reading books is better. I beg to differ. Maybe more on that later.

I'm not really creative in my opinion atleast but often I try to make my own proverbs and quotes. I like doing it because it gives a good feeling like you succeeded. I started doing that a few years back when I had troubles and quotes helped me push through and they became a big part of my life.

I chose to write in English and not in my native language Finnish because I love internationality, I'm really bad at Finnish and I have always been good at English.One other reason why I decided to write in English was that I have friends from foreign countries that don't understand Finnish and I wanted them to be able to read my blog.

I have been thinking about blogging, vlogging and making youtube videos before but I didn't have the courage to do it. Making this wasn't easy but it was fun and I liked doing it so there's more to come.

I hope to catch you on the next one.

- Ville

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