If it’s meant to be it will happen.
Lately, I’m trying to push some things in my life and I talked to some friends/people who had the same issue.
How are you facing that kind of situations? Do you believe that if it’s meant to be it will happened and you just let it go?
I needed a signature from my landlord to get a permanent state. She is the best landlord you can imagine. Why I’m starting with that story is, because it was for me meant to be to live in apartment where I’m leaving.
Three years ago I decided to move to Vienna and two weeks before my movement, I met her. She offered me WG (WG means in Vienna that you are living in a shared room) in 18. District, which I didn’t like it so much and a few days later she wrote me that she had one free room in another apartment. When I checked the photos, I was so excited, because apartment looked like it was made for me . But the thing was, that I couldn’t afford it, well I thought I can’t, so I decide to stay at my friends place to reduce my costs. A month later friends decided to move. I was happy for them to get an apartment with terrace and the most beautiful view of Vienna, but at the same time I was worried, where I’ll go and if I'll find apartment for symbolic price. Luckily my other friend offered me to stay at her place during the summer, because she was anyway out of the town most of the time, but we agreed that I’ll move out at the end of the summer. Very soon I got a job, so I could start looking for a new flat. I found a WG with two guys, which was still kind of acceptable, but the room was super small.
One day I thought of my 'dream apartment' and decided to write (just for fun) to the owner. She remembered me and replied: "What a coincident!! One girl is just leaving in the middle of September."..yeeey. I stayed at a friends place a little bit longer and since then I’m enjoying my time in my ‘meant to be’ apartment, that my heart would pick at the beginning, but my head needed some security for the step 😉
...and with most of the things in our life is the same. We just have to hope that our heart will remind us long and loud enough that the head will hear it and accept it.
Who knows, if it’s better to follow the heart from the beginning…maybe yes. If I would accept the flat immediately, maybe I would get my job quicker and with better salary or it just had to be like that and I had adventure, which I wouldn’t had if I would choose ‘left’ instead of ‘right” ...so, maybe no😊
My ex-boss ones told me that every day we have to choose between left and right at least 10 times, but when we look back it seems like it was a destiny (or meant to be).