Been distant again out traveling unable to update. I don't know what's wrong with the app but it doesn't connect to wifi-networks and I couldn't really find time or energy to stop by a Internet cafe 😂 anyway I've had a great time with great people in Heraklion. Just felt that I needed a break so it was kind of an impulsive trip but now I'm back with a 100 things on my plate. Escaping when u have things to do is never a good thing afterwards.. So the rest of this week will be very intense with work, meetings and believe it or not, training!
Omg i can't just let this go haha! It seems like I need to repeat my warning since I've met a few more naive girls since I wrote this the last time. So here we go again!
Ok girls this is happening all the time, all over the world. I've seen this a lot in a lot of different countries. The first thing to understand is that the hotel world is a whole different world, where love most likely doesnt excist. Where 99 procent of the people turns off their feelings and only pretends to have feelings to get a better life. We call them "sanky-panky". They are great actors, and some of you will try to deny it. Yeah sure, there are a few exceptions, maybe 1/1000 cases.
So, what is a "sanky-panky"?
A sanky panky is a guy, working in the tourism buisness, often as an animator/entertainer in a hotel, but the other positions are not out of the map. He will flirt with you, tell you that he likes you and ask you if you want to go out with him. But guess what? he doesn't want you, no, not at all. The only thing he is looking for is someone who can fall deeply in love with him so he can get money or a visa to your country. He will make you feel like you are the only girl in the world, the love of his life and treat you like a queen. He will pretend to be jealous and say "the only reason i'm jealous is because i love you, if i didn't love you i wouldn't care". You don't want to believe it, but the amount of the girlfriends he has AT THE MOMENT in his whatsapp is not only 1, 2, 3 or 4 girls, no, try with 5-10. And yea, don't be surprised at all if his "sister" that he just introduced you to is actually his wife who is very much aware of the situation and plays along to get a better life too. I've been working in the tourism buisness and i saw this almost everyday during that time. The guys even told me about how easy it is to fool the girls, make them fall in love with them and use them as cash machines or tickets to their countries. They picked out girls and competed about who could get most "girlfriends".
So here is a list with a few things to watch out for and some typical Sanky-signs:
Run away if..
1. He tells you that he likes you after talking for less than a day.
2. He is talking about your future together after only a few weeks or even worse, days together.
3. He wants to introduce you to his family after a short time knowing him.
4. He is asking you out, everything is perfect and he is so romantic, until he asks you if you have any money cause he doesn't have and he expects you to pay for the food, drinks and hotelroom for the night if you go that far.
5. He asks you for some small money so he can buy something to eat or whatever.
6. He is handsome and you are ugly. Cause there are a lot of beautiful girls in the hotels EVERYDAY, and he doesnt choose you for your inside, cause seriously, comon, he doesnt even know if you have a good inside before he starts to talk with you. The only reason that he starts to talk to you if you're not pretty, is because he sees you as an easy target because you're not used to get attention and will fall for him even harder because you feel that someone actually or maybe finally, wants you.
The big money part is starting when you're back home in your country:
- He is asking you to send him a phone cause his doesnt work, and he wants it to be able to talk with you. How can you talk with him if he doesn't have a phone? ;) smart one.
- Someone in his family is sick and needs to go to the hospital.
- He has been in an accident and he is in the hospital but it's so expensive.
- He lost his job because the boss found out that he met you wich is forbidden, so now he doesn't have any money.
- He got in to prison, and needs to pay to get out of there.
- He has debts and it needs to get paid or he will go to prison.
He will you to send him money and if he doesn't ask, he is expecting you to feel so bad for him and offer him help.
So please, don't take things so seriously and learn how to recognize the signs instead of lying to yourselves 😂
U know when u have something to wake up to and have been counting out the exactly hours u will get to sleep?? Yea, that never ends out like planned. I got to sleep around 3 hours before I had to wake up 😶 but I made it out of bed downtown with Olivia to PRO-nails and it's worth it to get new, fresh nails. And I get to drink my morning coffee here instead. ❤️🦄 it's spa and cleaning day, so the rest of the days schedule is full as well. Have a nice sunday sweeties😘
I've had a pleasant day that started out with me myself and I and a little bit of sunshine before I had dinner with my father, Annette, My brother and Cindy. The night ended with a spontaneous night at Malins plays with some games and great company! 😘👌🏼✨ just cried a bit though when I saw myself on a friend who was with us tonight's Snapchat story.. like what the fuck has happened to my body? Am I just getting bigger and bigger? And how the hell could I break my biggest, stretchiest pair of jeans? I need to do something and that's ASAP! We can't do this anymore, I need to be on a starving diet. Atleast for a couple of days 😂 shakes from tomorrow all week long it is! Keep track on me please 🙏🏼
Mia personal does it again and I can't do any other than love my hair ❤️
After a great weekend with way to much calories and alcohol I guess I feel like I deserve. I haven't been this hangover for a long, long time. Can't remember last time I felt like this actually 😂 I'm stuck in bed and will probably be for a while longer. Starting to feel sick too, but I hope it's just the hangover speaking and fooling around with my brain. Will see about that mañana 😘 I hope your weekend has been as pleasant as mine. Goodnight!
Isn't it weird how we sometimes behave one way but want to act the opposite?
It's time to say goodnight after a day full of joy, amazing people and gifts 😍 big plus and mucho love to my family and friends.
Couldn't see nothing at all.. Couldn't hear nothing at all except from my music that I had on the highest volume to not hear a thing. Ended up at Gavle Padel and it will seriously be my new hobby!! Damn I had a fun afternoon!!