I took a break😌, life was going in a crazy direction, and I felt like I was in a box, so I decided to tick off some of the items on my bucket list starting with a trip to USA😘.

Anyway it was fun fun fun all the way, Americans are Big on history, went to so many places and had mega fun, I even fell half in love😍! it got me singing..(Hey I just met you, this is crazy, so get my number and call me maybe💃😍). I did get into trouble, on a few occasions but what the heck! Who is Pamela without a bit of trouble😜.

Here are some of the high lights of my trip:

Ok I have to say something, I went to the National Air and Space museum, it had all the air planes flown in the USA from the wright brothers, amazing right, I entered some of them which were still preserved 😍, I heard that the building had to be built around the airplanes😉.

It goes on and on, from monument that is so high up, you wonder if there is a secret pass way under, to the statue of Abraham Lincoln and his ascribed words, to the images of the fallen heroes, to National World War 1 memorial, to constitution garden pond were I made a wish…it goes on and on.

Above national Air and Space museum, I watched Flight simulations😁, the issues with the first plane made, how they used those problems to make better more comfortable planes, so what we are enjoying today as a faster more comfortable means of transportation, people like you and I sat down, thought this through, am pretty sure when they started it, they probably didn't know what the future would be like, I was in there just amazed, wonder struck and I wanted to transport my self to that time and just watch them brainstorm😁.

Above surrounded by the 50 states in America, lets not even talk about all the work put into maintaining this art work, plus the cameras...jeezzz

Words of Abraham Lincoln forever standing tall, this was what 'Jay Z' meant when he sang ''forever young, I wanna be, forever young, do you really want to leave forever, forever, forever Youngggg'' 🙏

(Above left)Those gold medals (stars) are real gold (4048 in number)😊, for all the people who lost their lives or were injured during world war 2. Then I decided to goof around at the monument, I heard the president when flying through that route has to circle it twice, while other planes have to go around it (talk about tradition). Am pretty sure there may be like a hidden pass way...(hmmm)✨.

I would be going to the National museum of African American history and culture, would gist you about that in a bit!

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It felt like a heavy metallic door

Soaking me in darkness

Preventing me from reaching out to the light

I wanted to beat the door down

With all the rage I felt.


It felt like it was stripping me naked

Controlling the beat of my heart

Controlling my different faces

I wanted to scream out loud

But my mouth was gagged.


It felt like I was in prison,

Let me out, I screamed.

Murmuring constantly to my self,

But I did the right thing.

How did I get in here?

How else do you walk freely?

Into your own prison.


I woke up, in the darkness

And realized it was all in my head😃😃

I could flap my wings and fly away😌

Just like that

I flew away into the light.💃💃

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Be Kind to me,

Oh mother Africa,

I was born in a different generation.

I was taught before I could count my teeth,

The sky is not your limit, but your starting point,

But now, as I enjoy the bounce of my hips at every step,

You tell me,

Limit your expectations child!

Please be kind to me,

I was born in a different generation,

I am an intelligent woman,

A dreamer, a visionary,

Confident and full of life,

You made me this way!

Why then do you speak,

From two sides of your mouth?

I became a chef,

I soaked myself in your religion,

I walked the path of professionalism,

Yet clean like a boss.

You made me this way!

But you say,

Zip your mouth child!

Limit your expectations.

But I have already learnt to soar,

Better than the eagle in the sky,

Be kind to me,

Oh mother Africa,

For you made me like this,

When you taught me, before I could count my teeth,

That the sky is not my limit!

But my starting point.

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 I heard about Jazz-hole from some friends. Ikoyi's oldest jazz clubs still  in existence, some say ''in those days, it was a site to behold''. It was ‘’the place’’ to be for the best coffee, book read😍, munch apple pie crumble and just transport oneself to another realm. So when the opportunity came to visit jazz-hole, I hopped on it like a rabbit.

I was totally in love with the mini club owner’s African print attire, other love moments were the array of books, as a geeky geek like me, 'just so you know I did literature (that’s why am so lomantic)', my eyes kept roaming for the latest/newest book to read and there were alotttt…there was Chimamanda Adichie, the beautiful ones are not yet born, there was once a country, things fall apart, I wondered if I would see ‘’Tess of d’Urbervilles’’ that book gave me headache😥😓. I also saw African cook books and contemplated getting one to sharpen my culinary skills(who knows were bae would be from😁). I finally settled for ‘’the Glimmer Palace’’ it was a novel about a famous actress who grew up in Berlin (it did not inspire me)

I was extremely happy when I was invited for a live band show on the 18th of September 2016. I can tick that off my bucket list ‘’join a live band’’.

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The 2016 SPE NAICE Conference or rather society of petroleum engineers, Nigerian Annual International Conference and Exhibition was here again😄.

All the oil and gas companies you can think of came out to show their soldiers might, show case their products and of course to network.

From Ofserv, total, Shell, Chevron, Exxon Mobil, NNPC Group,weather ford, Petan, Well fluid, Weltec, AOS Orwell, Oil data, Eroton, Emval,the list goes on and on am exhausted already👌. It’s a job seekers hunting ground, who knows you might just get lucky👍.

The last time I attended SPE NAICE Conference was in 2013,it was a crazy year. I was fresh out of NYSC😜, ambitious, smart, courageous,young😍and optimistic. Ah when you are young and the world is at your feet😘. This year I like to think am younger🙏, but smarter and wiser…lolz.

This years conference was a bit scanty tho, you could tell that the oil price saga and the economic issues had hit some companies below the belt, but still some companies are still standing tall.

I have to respect the organizers and participants, the journey from start to final day of exhibition is not an easy one😓, I have literary lost my groove life😓(if that is possible😁),I have missed my “udeme is a great man days”😍. I have been neck deep in preparations, I have worried my eyes out, gotten upset😒, contemplated dividing myself into 10 places, if that is possible just to meet deadlines and make the exhibition worth it. You won’t understand half of it.

I got to meet friends I haven’t met in years😃and lecturers that refused to give me an ‘A’😉. I was actually shocked that they remembered me😳. I missed my famous ‘pam pam pam’ tho 'Engr ####'😁, I was actually on the look out for him 06’ set y’all know who am talking about!😄It was great. When I wasn’t worrying or talking about one product or another, I was definitely laughing.

My highlights of the exhibition was definitely I got to eat lovely customized cakes, and I had this lovely dinner at “bottles”, you know my fancy for new places, I was impressed 100! The live band, the cool serene atmosphere, I love it love it love it…Expect a full gist of that later on!

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I have read a lot of advice to job seekers and most times I would be like uhun😏! This is naija abeg. The oil saga taught petroleum Engineers a lot of lessons, even though we have been hustling the job way before the oil price saga happened, but let’s just blame it on that.

I believe with the way naija economy is going and the uncertainty of the stability or rising of the oil price any time soon, it’s very obvious that one needs to have their own side geek. I would get calls from some of my friends asking me ‘how far na’ what can I do? And I would be like shuooo! Even me I dey the same hustle o. So I put some stuffs together to tell you how we do it the naija way! Correct me if am wrong.

PRAY:If you don’t know how to pray, just get on your knees and say ‘God help me🙏’ he will take over from there. Please naija is crazy and you need to pray. Prayer gives you the grace you need to overcome the frustration of rejected letters,irritation of long queues at exam halls, annoyance at searching and not finding any vacancy. Join a volunteer group, Sow seed once in a while, Olamide knew what he meant when he sang ‘who u ep’ abi u think say na your condition worse pass. Be sincere and true in your prayers.

Stay connected and develop yourself: Learn how to build and keep relationships. Who are your friends? Are they lifting you up emotionally, do they motivate you? Are they encouraging you? Are they also helping you in the job hunt😃? Stay connected with people in and out of the ‘industry’. Keep in touch, let them remember you’re still on the look out. Develop yourself, a lot of free courses are advertised on LinkedIn👍. Block that aunty, uncle, sister,brother or friend who happens to have WIFI. I have blocked so many people that when they see me standing outside the window, they just say, please just come in, I know what you’re doing😂.

What’s your flavour?And by that I mean what’s your passion😍? I would always tell my brother, you have talent you design shirts, you make music, you started your own studio. To my sister I would say you started your own body butters/ facial scrubs👍, to my  mum I would say, you are a writer, an editor and a poet, I am just an engineer  who spots talents and get people to buy into someone’s idea. My brother would look at me and say, the ability to spot talent is a talent itself. Linda  Ikeji loves gossip and makes lots of money from it, wizkid loves music and makes  loads of money from it, I know a friend who is so good at graphic designing,his name is ‘EL Russoe’ find him on Facebook. I know another friend who started a foodie mart go to ‘’http://ekofoodie.com.ng/’’, I know people who work and  also are experts in makeup, fashion designing, catering, what have you! So  what’s your flavour😍, everyone has that something that comes naturally, discover  it. Have you read about Colonel Sanders, founder of Kentucky fried chicken or Mary Kay Ash?

Don’t Stop!What the heck would you stop for😳? You keep applying, you would get rejections,you may not but who cares, one day monkey go enter market see banana. It’s a sink or swim situation and you want to swim because the people who finally made it, swam!😁

Please have fun:Be like me and chill with a cold bottle of stout sometimes because basically there is nothing else you can do😃. My over wise brother would say ‘you need to remember that everything comes from God, you may work extra hard and won’t see the result but someone lifts a pen and it goes boom’ It’s all God at the end’.

Sometimes plan B even becomes better than plan A that we forget about plan A

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I once witnessed a marriage proposal and I was all smiles😊. Some months back, I went to Titanic Club house which is one of the coolest club houses in Finima Bonny Island😉mostly known as the best spots for mouth watery meals😍, footie moments, Birthday parties 🎈🎉🍸, musical battles and of course marriage proposals💍. On this faithful day, I was at the club house cosying up with management, contemplating if I should go for Isi Ewu or Nkwobi😁, discussing the way forward and just watching people getting their grove on, when suddenly a girl jumped up with surprise,ring in check, big time YES😍😘!!! Free drinks for everyone🙌. It was a funny sight to behold, all that emotional excitement, love and romance in the air🌹(makes me wonder what I would say, before I say YESSS!!😜).

So if you’re coming to bonny Island for vacation, leisure or you live in bonny island and looking for a place to say “marry me😉😉” and hear the words “I do👊” or throw a birthday bash, or perform a musical contest or rap battle or better still you love mouth watery meals 😍like me and you’re looking for the best spots, then come down to Titanic Club House Finima,lets share your fun moments with you.

If you’re also looking  for that all stars outfit 💃🚶👠👟for that special moment lets stroll down to our  shopping extension, we have everything you need. We make partying, eating and shopping easy for you👍👍.

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Laugh with me and yet don’t laugh, this is serious😎. On this faithful day, I was in church, seated lady likely with my fashionable pleated white and black skirt, waiting patiently to get home to that sizzling rice and stew moment🙈 (I mean its Sunday rice now) when this special announcement for singles was said “am I really in love” I almost laughed out loud, I had to remember I had some really matured mean faced Christian mothers seated beside me and held it in😁.

But seriously, ‘Am I really in love’? 😍I read this book by Chimamanda Adichie ‘Americanah’ it felt like a proper Nigerian love story 👌(neeeeyy or nakkkk) at some point in that book, there was this man to man talk ‘’many of us didn’t marry the woman we truly loved, we married the  woman that was around when we wanted to get married’’ 😂😂

Oh yea, I had a really long speech about that. That was two years ago and two years after, I am single ✌️, not perfectly single but happy 🍹 (tatafos keep off) and almost laughing at a church announcement. I am totally not ok at all (sometimes am aware of that 😀).

Honey with the increasing rate of divorce 😔,relationship/marriage craziness 😞, husband and wife brutality😢, it’s enough to ask ‘are we truly in love’. I perfectly understand it, I know, how it feels when we meet that tall, dark or fair (you know your spec) 😍, handsome 😁, generously 💸💰 in tune type of guy or that boobicious, bootilicious 😁, tall, tiny waist, legs to go on forever 😏, face like a rose, lips like red rubies 💋, monkey in the banana wrap 👏, I can cook for Africa kinda gal, you now add perfect English and voice like ‘Cornelius Ogar of the voice-Nigeria’ ♥️oh baby💓! Yassssssss 🙌 , we are in love 😍😘😚, Our heart does that vavava vooom 💑 kind of song we like, we texting each other and laughing all the time, head bubbing like ducks (hello! I know😕). Emmmm sowiee no you’re not in love 😜, not yet tho (I know what they call that moment, but I won’t say😉).

So am going to sit straight, forget about that sweet rice at home, wipe the smirk off my face, and put the date down, because if he is going to be the father of my kids, or the mother of your kids, and hold your hand when your 90 (opps, you thought you would be young forever? 😄😄😃 phulsssss) then we need to ‘get in hia’ and ask each other ‘Are we truly, really in love’, because sisterrr garlll or dearest booboo kitty,

a stitch in time, saves nine…🍸🍷💕💋

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My one crazy famzing moment with a long-time friend turned fashion designer ‘’Karen Ayuba’’ aka Flat 17studio. I am def loving it 😍. I remember my shopaholic days in Manchester and Metrocentre Newcastle💋👗👠. I would come across this fashion store ‘Karen Millen’ and instantly remember ‘Karen’. That’s how I would be on one of my shopping sprees and see ‘Flat17studio’ 😉I better famzy asap with Karen to get some sexy sales when the time comes (Giggles ☺️).

I know way back in school she talked about wanting to go into building which she studied. When she started with fashion designing later on,I was a bit surprised. After seeing a lot of her sketches, work and how strong and focused she has become over the years, am completely star struck. This is a star in the making👌, take note

This lady puts the B in Bridezilar. You should see the grin on the faces of all the beautiful ladies rocking her designs😁, looking all elegant, its epic. You know me now, I already have my bridal fashion designer on lock down☺️ (Karen I better have some discounts for early booking). I just need to drag that man 😜down the aisle (fierce face😑). Just take a look and feel the passion in the sexy sketches and the sexy vixens wearing her designs, I don’t think any bride should go too far! Call her and get ‘bridazzled’.

I have so much admiration for you Karen, it’s not easy to find that ying to your yang! Dat pumped up energy in something to keep you going. I feel the passion every time I look at your designs.  Girl you rock!!👏👏💕

Am sure you all reading this,love it as well, don’t get lost in all the bridal fittings, Flat17studio is the way to go, go get bridazzled!!! 💕💕💕💋💋

Email : Kmilaghe@gmail.com

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I was in a hurry to board a flight to Lagos, Nigeria from the Port Harcourt,International Airport. As usual they fell my hand😰, the flight was rescheduled from 12.06pm to 17.28pm😞. Like HELLO!!!!😏.Trust me, I called customer care sharp sharp to find out what the issue was and if I should expect any setbacks again👎! I know I should be flogged right😒? Even my mum said ‘’so u think they will just tell you, oh yea, we would cancel again, you are not serious’. Bet why? Why can’t I book and board the plane at the said time. Why must Nigerian time enter eh? Let’s not even get into all that because that’s not the major issue.

Please is Port Harcourt International airport really an International airport? To me, it seems like an air strip in an isolated village for refugees😂. I have questions, Abeg why do they collect cash at the entrance? 300 for big cars and 200 for small cars? Why is there only one fan at boarding area😭? Please who knows how close we are to the sun these days🔥? I almost passed out! Thank goodness I was not pressed for the rest-room. Wonder what it would have looked like.

With the flight cancellations and rescheduling, to gate fees and all, I so do not dig PHC airport. I haven’t even spoken about the structure yet! I won’t get into that am half-exhausted already. 

Like seriously ....

The funny thing is we (I mean Nigerians) are so okay with poor service. I noticed a couple of guys complaining of the whole situation, and saying ‘’ imagine if one had important impromptu stuff, you just can’t trust these airlines o, they just cancel anyhow or delay anyhow and send am sorry for inconvenience, as if that na consolation’’

Imagine paying gate fee when tomatoes 🍎🍎are so expensive! And fuel price is now #145.


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