We all have weird friends, don’t we? Some guys turned best friends that the thought of dating them means you want to cross over to the LGBT society 🤦🏼♀️ and nah nah nah (not my forte). But am not talking about those friends, am talking about ‘’the girl friends 😍’’. Every girl has that friend who is ‘a good girl 🙏-she don’t club, she doesn’t drink, she prays 24/7, she got no BF or male friends 💆🏼, she’s waiting on the lord for that super human perfect man😒’ or ‘the coded one’- I cannot even define this one! She is the baddest of all ✋🏻she is the real definition of sheep in wolves clothing 👁👀(GO FIGURE), we have the crazy friend🙋💃damn she’s always turning up💃.The talkative 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♀️-that friend who don’t care about nothing, she’s going to give you the type of gist that would make your ears 🙋🙆🏻ringgg!!!, then we have the smart ones👩🏼🎓, the responsible friend👰🏽, who will always have one or two advice for you 👩🏼🏫, the alcoholic 🍷she’s not crazy, she just has an affinity for booze and lastly the curious one👩🏽💻-who believes she has nine lives and therefore has to try everything new👱🏻♀️!

Today I am celebrating the responsible one😁. When this love story started, I don’t know where I was, all I know Is I heard 👂, I was excited and as always 😍, I joined in the happily ever after👰🏽.

Because they love to laugh......❤❤❤ stay around this guys....damn..someone is always teasing the other.

Trust us 🤞🏿, we must always come out 👏👏SLAYING!!!

Double tap if you spot the three musketeers 👊🏽✌🏼....From QC TO UNIPORT...we always have each others back.

Family that SLAYS together...🙌🙌🙌..the look on the bride's mum's face tho..epic..peaceful, joyful, fulfilled.

The twerk master..😉☺️i tried to learn but failed......fast forward to next picture..is that my backside😂😂 (wowzers)


I raise my glass 🍷as I say a big cheers to our responsible one with all my heart❤,I cannot wait to see little responsible girls-honey get with 😘😘it am counting down already!! Cheers because just as you found the man of your dreams, he found the woman of his dreams.

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When music makes you happy 🙋😀, you cant help but SING! 🎼🎶🎤🎸🎻🎺from gospel music at ATC club in ANSU Nigeria, to R & B on the streets of Newcastle ✨Lolli x the lover of love 💕💓has come to romance us with his music 💫

2017 got everyone screaming SLAY year💪🏽👊🏽!!! Lolli X decided to SLaY with us 👏👏by romancing us with a new and amazing solo R & B😊😉

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Igwe tupac got nothing on us. We came to slay in 2017 and we aint kidding about it, that’s why we screaming 😀😀 at the top of our voices 🙌🙋👏 AMOSHINE!!

If you did not shine with us last year then there’s time for you to do so this year, don’t let 2017 pass you by without joining the Ivette naturals family 😁😁.

Ever since I started using Ivette naturals body butters and bar soap am like 👏👏😘 *snaps fingers three times screaming* I gat luscious skin! 💋💋 in fact the speed and ease at which I rub it morning and night…sister gurlllll you can testify from just watching me step.🎊💅🏾

Hold up! Don’t just stand there admiring! Shine with me, cos this year I want us to SLAY together!!! 💋👄

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All the places I had to show my ID for a sip of alcohol 🍹..

Was so confused with the choice of drinks at green turtle that the bar tender asked for my ID...

Never been a fan of Hennessy but I had my first shot at Dave & Buster's. Dave & Buster's is a gaming center, You have an array of game choices to play...You all should have seen me in the car race..I was a natural.

I cant wait to jet off again!

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Finally, the long queue came to an end, and I was able to get into the museum.

It wasn’t what I expected, I was looking forward to knowing more about the slave trade revolution, but I guess everyone has had enough of all that, and don’t want to generate more hate and create something that would be a constant reminder to the black American society. Instead it was more about celebrating their growth to lime-light.

A celebration of those people who fought against all odds to be more than what they were told they would be, a fight/race from freedom to stardom.

I learnt how to step dance, did you know that the black Americans are originators of the step dance?. Helloooooooo!!!!

Up above: Simon Biles Signature move.

I wish we could save our history (Nigeria) like this guys....!!! 🙏🙏

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I took a break😌, life was going in a crazy direction, and I felt like I was in a box, so I decided to tick off some of the items on my bucket list starting with a trip to USA😘.

Anyway it was fun fun fun all the way, Americans are Big on history, went to so many places and had mega fun, I even fell half in love😍! it got me singing..(Hey I just met you, this is crazy, so get my number and call me maybe💃😍). I did get into trouble, on a few occasions but what the heck! Who is Pamela without a bit of trouble😜.

Here are some of the high lights of my trip:

Ok I have to say something, I went to the National Air and Space museum, it had all the air planes flown in the USA from the wright brothers, amazing right, I entered some of them which were still preserved 😍, I heard that the building had to be built around the airplanes😉.

It goes on and on, from monument that is so high up, you wonder if there is a secret pass way under, to the statue of Abraham Lincoln and his ascribed words, to the images of the fallen heroes, to National World War 1 memorial, to constitution garden pond were I made a wish…it goes on and on.

Above national Air and Space museum, I watched Flight simulations😁, the issues with the first plane made, how they used those problems to make better more comfortable planes, so what we are enjoying today as a faster more comfortable means of transportation, people like you and I sat down, thought this through, am pretty sure when they started it, they probably didn't know what the future would be like, I was in there just amazed, wonder struck and I wanted to transport my self to that time and just watch them brainstorm😁.

Above surrounded by the 50 states in America, lets not even talk about all the work put into maintaining this art work, plus the cameras...jeezzz

Words of Abraham Lincoln forever standing tall, this was what 'Jay Z' meant when he sang ''forever young, I wanna be, forever young, do you really want to leave forever, forever, forever Youngggg'' 🙏

(Above left)Those gold medals (stars) are real gold (4048 in number)😊, for all the people who lost their lives or were injured during world war 2. Then I decided to goof around at the monument, I heard the president when flying through that route has to circle it twice, while other planes have to go around it (talk about tradition). Am pretty sure there may be like a hidden pass way...(hmmm)✨.

I would be going to the National museum of African American history and culture, would gist you about that in a bit!

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It felt like a heavy metallic door

Soaking me in darkness

Preventing me from reaching out to the light

I wanted to beat the door down

With all the rage I felt.


It felt like it was stripping me naked

Controlling the beat of my heart

Controlling my different faces

I wanted to scream out loud

But my mouth was gagged.


It felt like I was in prison,

Let me out, I screamed.

Murmuring constantly to my self,

But I did the right thing.

How did I get in here?

How else do you walk freely?

Into your own prison.


I woke up, in the darkness

And realized it was all in my head😃😃

I could flap my wings and fly away😌

Just like that

I flew away into the light.💃💃

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Be Kind to me,

Oh mother Africa,

I was born in a different generation.

I was taught before I could count my teeth,

The sky is not your limit, but your starting point,

But now, as I enjoy the bounce of my hips at every step,

You tell me,

Limit your expectations child!

Please be kind to me,

I was born in a different generation,

I am an intelligent woman,

A dreamer, a visionary,

Confident and full of life,

You made me this way!

Why then do you speak,

From two sides of your mouth?

I became a chef,

I soaked myself in your religion,

I walked the path of professionalism,

Yet clean like a boss.

You made me this way!

But you say,

Zip your mouth child!

Limit your expectations.

But I have already learnt to soar,

Better than the eagle in the sky,

Be kind to me,

Oh mother Africa,

For you made me like this,

When you taught me, before I could count my teeth,

That the sky is not my limit!

But my starting point.

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 I heard about Jazz-hole from some friends. Ikoyi's oldest jazz clubs still  in existence, some say ''in those days, it was a site to behold''. It was ‘’the place’’ to be for the best coffee, book read😍, munch apple pie crumble and just transport oneself to another realm. So when the opportunity came to visit jazz-hole, I hopped on it like a rabbit.

I was totally in love with the mini club owner’s African print attire, other love moments were the array of books, as a geeky geek like me, 'just so you know I did literature (that’s why am so lomantic)', my eyes kept roaming for the latest/newest book to read and there were alotttt…there was Chimamanda Adichie, the beautiful ones are not yet born, there was once a country, things fall apart, I wondered if I would see ‘’Tess of d’Urbervilles’’ that book gave me headache😥😓. I also saw African cook books and contemplated getting one to sharpen my culinary skills(who knows were bae would be from😁). I finally settled for ‘’the Glimmer Palace’’ it was a novel about a famous actress who grew up in Berlin (it did not inspire me)

I was extremely happy when I was invited for a live band show on the 18th of September 2016. I can tick that off my bucket list ‘’join a live band’’.

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The 2016 SPE NAICE Conference or rather society of petroleum engineers, Nigerian Annual International Conference and Exhibition was here again😄.

All the oil and gas companies you can think of came out to show their soldiers might, show case their products and of course to network.

From Ofserv, total, Shell, Chevron, Exxon Mobil, NNPC Group,weather ford, Petan, Well fluid, Weltec, AOS Orwell, Oil data, Eroton, Emval,the list goes on and on am exhausted already👌. It’s a job seekers hunting ground, who knows you might just get lucky👍.

The last time I attended SPE NAICE Conference was in 2013,it was a crazy year. I was fresh out of NYSC😜, ambitious, smart, courageous,young😍and optimistic. Ah when you are young and the world is at your feet😘. This year I like to think am younger🙏, but smarter and wiser…lolz.

This years conference was a bit scanty tho, you could tell that the oil price saga and the economic issues had hit some companies below the belt, but still some companies are still standing tall.

I have to respect the organizers and participants, the journey from start to final day of exhibition is not an easy one😓, I have literary lost my groove life😓(if that is possible😁),I have missed my “udeme is a great man days”😍. I have been neck deep in preparations, I have worried my eyes out, gotten upset😒, contemplated dividing myself into 10 places, if that is possible just to meet deadlines and make the exhibition worth it. You won’t understand half of it.

I got to meet friends I haven’t met in years😃and lecturers that refused to give me an ‘A’😉. I was actually shocked that they remembered me😳. I missed my famous ‘pam pam pam’ tho 'Engr ####'😁, I was actually on the look out for him 06’ set y’all know who am talking about!😄It was great. When I wasn’t worrying or talking about one product or another, I was definitely laughing.

My highlights of the exhibition was definitely I got to eat lovely customized cakes, and I had this lovely dinner at “bottles”, you know my fancy for new places, I was impressed 100! The live band, the cool serene atmosphere, I love it love it love it…Expect a full gist of that later on!

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